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Jessica, 49
United States, Connecticut, Meriden

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I am a very outgoing bubbly person by nature. I never meet a stranger and have a kind and gentle heart. I love God, my family and life in general. I have two beautiful children that have blessed my life. I have an adventurous spirit and strive for new endeavors. I live a very active and healthy lifestyle and seek the same in my mate. I would absolutely love to have a work out partner at the gym, someone who likes to dress up for a night on the town, someone who can get his hands dirty while playing in the great outdoors!I guess I need to add this part I am not looking for someone to take care of me, I am not a victim of circumstances nor am I needy so I do not need to be rescued. I am not suffering from any mental illnesses....bi-polar, or depression. I am a normal, active, healthy lady that is Independent and can hold her own. I am not going to be your mother or a mother to your children....they already have one. I have raised my children and they are on there own now. Please don't contact me if you are still married, currently separated or have an ex-girlfriend/ex-lover/ex-wife that is still hanging around as your best friend. They are an ex for a reason and that part of your life is over!!! I want someone who is ready to build a future together and not let the past consume him! What I'm looking for: There is a man who knows what he wants, he goes that extra mile to show me that he wants me in his life, he is patient and kind, accepts me for who I am. In my eyes he is a sexy man who has a spontaneous, flirtacious, and adventurous nature that drives me wild. His passion surpasses my wildest expectations and draws me in. His sensuous touch makes me long for him when he is away from me. We have a closeness never felt by anyone before which makes him in a league all his own! He can be serious at times when actions warrant it. He is able to stand firm in his commitment and dedication to our relationship leaving no question as to his intentions of our future. As for physical appearance.....I'm not into large men, I prefer the athletic type, tall men 5'***'2 are my preference...I love to wear heels and I am already tall, dark hair is a plus, bald is sexy, teeth are a must, and a very healthy libido is required....no physical hang ups or limitations please! I ride a motorcycle so my preference would be that you ride too!PLEASE NOTE: Because I mention a healthy libido does NOT imply that I am out looking for a sex partner, sex hook up, or sex on the first date. I am simply implying that I do NOT want to start a relationship with a man who has issues with impotency, lack of testosterone, or heart conditions in which meds attribute to impotency issues!That is the man that I seek to have in my life.....If you think this describes you then contact me and we shall see....nothing nerve racking that we both can't relax

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lou from Meriden | Woman | 46 years old | Virgo
    Lou

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I finally figured this site out.....not my thingguys my age wanna get married an tie me down...good luck with that !older guys think they can tame me......not sure u existnot to be rude..but i only date white guys..we all have our preferences..thank uif u don't have pix posted..I assume ur a cheater...move on loser im not skinny...i am a woman with curves...not fat..but i do have butt an boobs...and thankful that i do...so if ur looking for a model..buy urself a cosmo!iets just get it outta the way now...some of u cant believe my religion...just like i cant believe ur so nieve..IM AN ATHEIST!go ahead an tell me to GO TO HELL..and see if i care..hahhahaha please...please..please understand that my profile is meant to be funny..if u take it serious...then uve really gotta lighten up...life is to short...so maybe a lil laughter will make u smilethank u let me start by saying that i love those that others dont...soooo if ur full of drama..ur a liar loser or leftover...or love to steal cheat an lie...an u have no job or ambitions in life...an u just got released from jail for raping ur mom...then r u in luck!cause IM DEFFINATELY NOT THE WOMAN FOR U !DONT WASTE MY TIME WITH UR NONSENSE!THANK U AN HAVE A NICE DAY...YEA RIGHT! i guess im outta here....please move on..no time for ur nonsense!!!!!!i recently came to the conclusion that i guess men think ur a PLAYA if u date..or u dont pick them????seriously guys..wtf?i was with the same man for 26 years..and faithful till the end.so i guess u can say..if i dont feel a click..im sorryits not u..its just that ur not who i want for the next 26 years.if ur not comfty with my way of dating..then please dont *** am 45. i do have wrinkles and yes im not perfect like some of u seem to think. i dont wanna decieve anyone....but that being said....IM NOT A FISH AT ALL..IM A MERMAID..THE KIND U HOPE TO FIND AND CAN REEL IN. BUT LIKE MOST MERMAIDS...I HAVE PRIORITES..I HAVE 2 GUPPIES THAT KEEP ME BIZZY...AND A WHOLE SCHOOL OF FISH TAGGING AT MY TAIL.meaning...im a single working mom who is very dedicated to the raising of her 2 children. u will ALWAYS b second!...always!please post pix that r recent and that r of u!second...if ur 55 and say that ur 45....u make urself look stupid!...give it up dumbasssssthird...standing by a hott car in ur pix doesnt make u anymore attractive...just means u probalby cant afford to buy me dinner.first of all...im from the south..so yes i talk pretty dang funny. if my twang dont capture ur heart...my shotgun will...lolim sorry 4 my shorthand an kno that proper english is a lost art...but in my defense, im a 1 finger pecker, and it takes me awhile 2 write anything. so please be kind and understand that what i lack in my writing skills..i makeup 10 fold in other areas ;)i think this online dating thing is pretty cool. where else can i grab my shopping cart.......continue on to the checkout...and put ***back on the candy shelf...cuz i kno i really dont need the extra calories!this is just way 2 cool!just so u kno....i only checked out with 1...and tossed it in the needy bin b4 i got thru the door!all of this while i sit on the comfort of my couch...my hand scratching my asss...eatting a snicker...and drinking a budlite.omg...life is soooooo good!hahahahhahahajust so u all kno...i do try an return most of the mail i recieve. please dont take my kindness as im wanting u. you will kno as we continue 2 chat wheather or not there is a connection.im a single divorced mom of the 2 best kids anyone could b blessed 2 have. ive been asked y im single...well i was left after 23 years of marriage. sooooooo i dont put up with liars, losers or leftovers. im a great person inside/out....if u dont believe me...just ask my wonderful kids...hahahhahai love anything loud fast and furious. im a very hyper person....not 1 to sit and watch the world pass me by.im not a great cook...or even a good cook...i dont do windows, but i can build a LEGO house better then anyone.i wont b on my hands n knees when u walk thru the door...ok maybe i will;)hahahhai dont like facial hair...have my reasons..loldont like smartasssses....unless ur I.Q. exceeds the outer limits.do love....someone who loves to be as funny as mecan be as happy strolling thru the park as u can be watching a game of football.dont get me wrong...i love watching...just not n front of the tube. i wanna b a part of the action.dont like jealousy...i do love talking 2 anybody/everybody. doesnt mean im gonna bang'em tho. its not me tht has the problem...its just ur insecurity.love 2 roll n the grass...makeout n the car...see-saw...zinnias...a man that smells nice...running barefoot....being a tomboy when i want...or being the lady that makes u proud. i love sugar babies an pringles...mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmhate coffee and bad breath...self centered people an the cost of gas. hate the economic crisis we r having and the dummies we vote into office.give a woman with PMS a week in office...and i guarantee that gas wound be 1.29 a gallon...unemployment rate would be down...new jobs would be up...an 1 week a month would be UR time ;)i love old people...people with disadvantages...the ones left behind or walked passed. u r no different...ur just a lil more blessed in sum areas.i love a breeze blowing thru an open window when i sleep...an the softness of my pillow when i lay my head down.i hate...guys who think tht they do a days work from 9-5....im sorry, but thats just when a womans day starts!in other words...if ur looking 4 sumone just like ur dear sweet mom.....its acceptable here...hahaha)but if ur looking 4 someone who is...KIND,LOVING,GIVING,SMART,SEXY.SENSUAL,SASSY,SEDUCTIVE..AND MORE FUNNY THEN THE LAW WILL ALLOW....hi!ok....blah blah blah. just hope u can see that im...funnyself assuredvery givingloves lifekindand would slice ur throat in a minute if u ever harmed my babies in anyway(im serious!)get the picture...im not AVERAGE...and wont settle 4 AVERAGE.im the kinda girl that would tell u if had a booger on the edge of ur nose...instead of looking away and g hmmmm...how about we meet on gilligans island after a 3 hour tour?

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  • Elena from Meriden | Woman | 46 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I don’t like most guys, because most do not spark my interest perhaps that what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all that more special. I am restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on put great flavor into many of my evenings.I’m looking for a person—and a relationship—of substance, honesty, intelligence, and loads of passion. I’m looking for someone with whom I can laugh, goof around, spoil, share secrets, and enjoy all the little nothings that, in the end, mean so much more than so many somethings. Here’s a little bit more about me:- I enjoy sitting around with family and acting like a fool-The first thing I do when I get off work is go to my parents house to visit- For some reason, I constantly forget my age and have to do the math in my headThe greatest challenge in life is discovering who you are ; The second greatest, is being happy with what you find-- I am looking for a relationship do not confuse this with a one night stand- I am a good person do not confuse this with being an easy mark- I love *** are my favorite flower- I enjoy flea markets and peddler malls- There’s not a single country I don’t want to visit- I am a great cook. And yes, I love to cook- If you are into playing games don't bother messaging me-I wanna know that the best part of my life is still ahead of me-I may not be perfect, but my imperfection is what makes me unique from the rest of the crowd. To me, perfection is overrated. I am happy with not being perfect.- MISFITS, LOSERS,CON ARTIST DRUG ADDICTS AND ALCOHOLICS NEED NOT APPLY!If I message you at least have the decency to respond Coffee or a walk in the park, maybe dinner but only if we go dutch.CBS commentator, Andy Rooney on women over 40:"As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize.

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  • Margery from Meriden | Woman | 50 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I FEEL I MUST REPEAT MYSELF...IF YOU'RE LOOKING FOR A ONE NIGHT STAND...PLEASE MOVE ON TO THE NEXT PROFILE!!! I enjoy traveling, the outdoors. Cuddling. Going out to eat. Going out for drinks. Bonfires with friends. Just sitting at the house chilling. Must be spontaneous. Right now I'm looking for someone just to hang out with and do things with and have some fun. If something more comes out of it then thats just a bonus. ;) Not interested in 1 night stands. So if that's what you want go on to the next profile. I'm ready for some fun in my life and want someone to have fun with. I feel like you need to be friends first. If this sounds like you drop me a note. If u have ne questions feel free 2 ask I'll answer anything. I'm an open book. Not hiding ne thing. I am who I am - faults, passions, abilities, mischievousness, soft and gentle, playful and naughty, good and bad. I am me. Love me as I am. I am an original. Whatever we decide on.

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