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Judy, 47
United States, Michigan, Dearborn Heights

Offline, last seen Wed, 30 Apr 2025 00:12:40

About Me

Young at heart, fun loving, independant woman, looking to make new connections. Earthy, sensual, affectionate, sensitive, yet able to laugh at the absurdities of life. A seeker of beauty in all things, particularly music, nature, books, and design.Yes, there are a few laugh lines around my eyes. And I've learned a few lessons the hard way;Each day is a new oneMove forwardingLearn and grow from all experiencesReach out for help when you need it.Adversity makes you stronger (when it doesn't kill you)Don't sand against the grainPack snacksI'm pretty newly independent, and loving it. Share custody with my (amicable) ex, and my son is necessarily the center of my focus, along with the attendant normal life things; job, classes, creative pursuits, community involvement ( all of which somehow add up to a career), and domestic projects...is there any room for romance? Yes!! Unequivocally. An open heart lives here.I love the outdoors in all seasons, recently rediscovered skiing and love how it brightens the coastal winters. I love how strong it makes me feel, physically and mentally. I’m a bit of a garden nut, and know my ceanothus from my cotinus. I’ve participated in many renovation projects, and have probably used most of the tools in your mancave. Not so good with computers, but re-booting seems to fix a lot of problems. Making things is a life-long pursuit, and I’ve been lucky enough to find work teaching other people about my passions. I have a deep respect for craftsmanship in all things. My social life revolves around a wonderful group of friends, who like to connect over dinners, community sports events, family camping and backpacking trips.I'm a clear-eyed optimist, a bit shy so I'd like to be with someone who is comfortable with quiet sometimes, and doesn't shy from asking questions or speaking their mind. I think intimacy is critical for a long term relationship, looking for a strong spark that promises lasting embers. And I know that takes work, and good communication, and each party coming in with a strong sense of self.Turn ons for me:Smiles with his eyesLikes to hang out with kids- maybe a big kid himselfPlays an *** speaks a foreign languageLoves and appreciates his momDecisive, sometimes spontaneous, always well preparedComfortable and curious in the kitchenIn awe of the beauty of the great outdoorsUltimately, I'm looking for my soul-mate, but I'm a patient and curious woman, who knows that each connection has something to offer. something low key, coffee and conversation

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Dina from Dearborn Heights | Woman | 47 years old | Gemini
    Dina

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Im looking for a good man who rides a Harley whos honest Loyal and no Drama . he must be kind but dont kiss ass . he must have a job . and he must like me.. i hate this stuff im much better talking one on one..i love to ride .play pool chill with friends or just hang out one on one. im getting jaded by this dateing crap . if your over weight just say so . if your not working say so. better yet why lie when you and i both know the truth will come out. i dont wait a year to meet in fact not more then a few days. i dont need to lie about what i look like . im secure with who i am and want a man the same way.i have 2 wonderful sons whom are the world to me. our home is there safe place if you cant respect that then you dont respect me. point,i am a package deal .my sons dont need a father or a dad thay have a great one. but i do expect respect for them and to them. ok enought bullcrap. im easy going fun as hell and not bad on the eyes. if interested hit me up ..im not here for a hook up or anything in between im looking for a man i will treat like a king. peace out Cowboys. if you dont know what i mean by Cowboy. rideing isent in your blood.. Getting to see who we both are or what we both are looking for .. dinner a few beers and hopefully some laughts..Rideing . bonfire hot dogs and good talking ..

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  • Blanche from Dearborn Heights | Woman | 47 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi! It says to talk about yourself, well, I'm me. I'm not one to talk about myself but, however, I do enjoy the outdoors such as camping, going for long walks, going to sporting events. I, truly, enjoy the simple things in life. I like most types of music but Country music is a favorite of mine. Someone once said, its hard too really know someone and figure out if they are compatible in just a few short lines and I have to agree. The only way to get to know someone is to meet and see if you will become friends because truly, becoming friends is the first step. If you want to know more about me, you are more than welcome to send me a message, I will reply. For a first date it would have to be something we both agree upon.

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  • Jennifer from Dearborn Heights | Woman | 48 years old | Aries
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I will not bore you with the usual profile stuff...as for my interests, personality etc....I would love to talk to you and share..... I will say a few things though about what I am looking for and what I'm not. That way we can all save some precious time.1. I am looking to find one person that I can date and have a happy healthy relationship with.I enjoy the closeness of a committed relationship and want that in my life. I am not looking for casual dates other than for the purpose of finding someone to hopefully have a relationship with. I do not want to be one of many cyber friends....that is meaningless in my opinion.2. I believe in open communication and straightforward talk. Of course respect in needed always, and I value a man who shows caring and respect towards me, himself and others. I am openly affectionate and prefer someone who is too.3 I surround myself with positive thinkers and doers...I need someone who is ambitious and positive about life and makes good choices for themselves. I value a healthy lifestyle, someone who enjoys different physical activities, and likes to get outside. I am not a couch potato... I love snuggling up for a good movie though!4. I need a man who is settled in their job and is financially stable. This does not mean that you have to make a ton of money because I am pretty simple in my needs and wants, but you need to be employed and preferably enjoy your profession. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. If you are interested in knowing more about me, please don't hesitate to send a quick ***, I would love to hear from you.(Updated ***Lynda I like the casual meeting like a walk on the beach or a cup of coffee/beer/or wine. Lets talk to see if there is a connection, some wild chemistry, or common interests...I actually prefer to talk on the phone before meeting face to face.

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