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Deirdre, 49

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About Me

they say describe your personality in one word then give things to pick like,,, animal lover, which I am, but thats two words lolI will date men who have a few extra pounds..a few...not thirty!I prefer men in their 40s...I know I am 49....BELIEVE me ....I know...but I like men in their 40s its what attracts me. I would like to meet someone who is... 1 over their ex 2 honest about what they want 3 who has a job 4 who is NORMAL!!! seems like there is something wrong with a lot of people on here. 5 not solely interested in sex 6 who is not married or involved 7 who likes bikes 8 who does not drink every night...i will not date an alcoholic 9 no sideways pics...This drives me nuts...its not cute..its annoying 10 if u put up an old pic...you are already a liar...dont bother me. I am open n honest, know what i want and wont settle for less. I am affectionate n loving but that does NOT mean i will have sex with you ....so dont even think it fellas! I am not looking to get married, i am barely divorced....but i do want a monogamous relationship with someone i can be gaga over and will be gaga over me...is that so hard? Am i so unattractive? I am beginning to think so. I was told i am =( hurtsmy nephew died last sunday..a week ago today(sept 15, ***...i found out on tuesday he was a heroin addict....it killed him....if you know anyone who does drugs...know this....a druggie will end up in jail or dead....send ur druggie to jail!!! i would ratehr visit my nephew in jail and know one day he will be out rather than visit his grave side. He was 24 yrs old. He had a huge heart and a huge problem, but not many people knew...I wish i had. ok here is a bit of info that i have been keeping under wraps....but now i am getting nervous n scared....6 years ago i discovered I am BRCA2 positive...so in two weeks i am undergoing a mastectomy with reconstruction. im really really scared...1. of the pain, 2. of the fact that i am removing perfectly healthy tissue from my body 3. that no man is gonna want me afterwards...i will go in with breasts and come out with breasts, but they wont be mine. =( im trying to be proactive with my health ...an ounce of prevention...yada yada...but im still *** watch n comment...=) its not a date...its a meeting....an interview....an audition....not a date! but I would prefer public and for coffee or food or a walk in the park...some place quiet to talk and get to know each other. no frills, no lies, just openness and honesty

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Erica

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    As a Mother of 3 Children and a Grandmother of a 1 year old. There is never a dull moment in my house. But you know what that is what I like. My family is importnat to me. We do game night once a month which is usually where we laugh our Butts off. Anyway I personally love to country line dance, for one it keeps me in shape and this is what I do for me time. I am a reader of course Romance novels, A girls gotta dream... lol I love to cook and bake and lay by the pool or on a beach. I am a Country Music Fan but there is still some Old Time Rock n Roll in my dancing shoes.. I am a huge Colts fan.. Love Football and let's not forget NASCAR... The feel the need for Speed!!!!!!I am very independent person, but I love to hold hands, take walks, watch movies and eat popcorn. I enjoy going to concert or just staying home with my granddaughter. I have a job in the Healthcare industry and yes it can be stressful , but I love what I do.. I am looking for someone who is honest, does not try to control me, can communticate and isn't fake. Don't put yourself on a pedastol, be real we are all human act like it..Please have picture on your profile.. Be real we are all adults and know that the picture is what decides if you contact someone.... Please don't message me if you are still hung up on an EX.. My first date not sure that can be planned ahead of time because you don't know the weather, If it is nice wather plan an outdoor date or if it is not so good weather it is an indoor date...there has to be a connection for a second date .

  • Elsie

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    My god this is exhausting.I would like a smart, funny, interesting, educated, calm, handsome man. No drama. He should be sensitive to my needs as I will be to his. I am very athletic and in shape. I would like the same. first date....ummm....anything but the usual....

  • Doris

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Oh choices! I chose "I am putting effort into finding someone! " It just seems so contrite. So what I really would like to say is that I would love to have a life partner eventually. It takes time and I have made the mistake before, rushing in too quickly. Lessons learned!!! I don't pay attention to the "Meet Me" feature as I believe it is a tool for people to click a hundred profiles at a time without really reading the profile, while hoping to get a response. If you are interested then you would send a note. Gentlemen:So now what I am looking for:I could get all mushy here and repeat the same cliches that I have seen over and over again. I really want to find a great man to communicate with and fall in love with and make that last. I don't fool myself as I know that takes work but I will do the work if the love and respect is mutual and worth it. Too many of us give up with a few bumps in the road.It is a two way street and I won't drive it alone in a relationship. I will have your back you must have mine. I think it is pretty simple and clear for a start. So take what you want and leave the rest or leave it all. Serious replies are only responded to. Thanks for your consideration. Please have a picture or I will not respond!Please do not contact me if you are in a relationship or still living with your EX, whether it is in the basement or on the couch! You really need to move on before dragging some unsuspecting person into your web of lies. I am not into your rebound. It would make it much easier if everyone were to be honest. After a few conversations, I am sure we will find out what we would like to do.

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