Total users: 63,945,514 Online users: 230,044
Essie, 47

Online

About Me

I'm a down to earth lady, that loves my kids and grand kids, the country life, all kinds of music, the water, my horse, dining out, grilling, gardening, sitting by a fire, or relaxing on the couch with a good movie. I'm 47 years old, and not in High School, so not into playing games. Won't last long if you are!!! I am looking for a REAL man and a REAL relationship, not a hook up or someone that is cheating on a wife or a Girlfriend, it's not fair to them or to me. You wouldn't like it happening to you. Won't take me long to figure it out!!!I have kids and grand kids and that will never change....So if you aren't active in your child(rens) lives, or if you do not have children we probably shouldn't meet. I find it hard to date someone that doesn't understand what its like having kids around all the time. I find it even harder to understand why you wouldn't want to be around them. I do NOT want to be chat buddies. I have plenty of those. If you aren't man enough to ask a lady out, then why are you on here in the first place? Most important, lets not waste each others time. I am NOT interested if you don't have a car. If you DON'T smoke or have a problem with me smoking.......it probably won't work. I will quit when I'm ready.I am independent, I support myself and I'm NOT about to support anybody else. If you haven't done something with your life and think I will spend all of my hard earned money, think again. I have children, myself, and my future to think about. So if you don't have a job, that won't work....I like to do things with the person I'm with.I am NOT a barbie doll....So if that's what you are looking for, I'm NOT her. I'm a Blue jeans/hoodie/T-shirt, shorts/flip flop type of girl. And I wear work boots and carhardt's to my job. I can dress-up well, but prefer to be comfortable and only dress up when the time calls for it. I don't mind getting dirty, or freak out that I'm going to break a nail....OMG.....the shop up the street can fix that if I do. I love putting on my mudder's to go out and play with my horse.....they have become a fixture in the trunk of my car. So I guess you could say, I have a lot of Tom Boy in me with a feminine side. I am a animal LOVER.....Any kind of animal. I don't mind them in the home, but that's only if you take care of them and they haven't taken over. I work with mine everyday. If I could bring my horse inside in the winter, I would.I LOVE food. I can and will eat more then most men. So don't think that if we go out, I'm gonna order something light. I'm eating. At ***lbs, I don't think I'll get fat!!!! My job makes sure I lift enough weights and do as much walking as possible, so I'm not working out either. I am who I AM, and won't change that for anyone except myself and my family. I like to have fun and joke around, so if acting goofy from time to time doesn't appeal to you, then we don't need to talk. Can't stand someone that is a stiff. I can and will however be very serious when it is called for, but like it says.....I'm a laid back girl. I don't stress to much about the silly stuff life has to offer. Life is too short and You adapt and overcome.....and Life goes on!!Ok.....I think that about covers it. THANKS FOR GETTING THIS FAR, I MUST HAVE HAD YOU INTRIGUED. :-) HAPPY FISHING!!!!! AND GOOD LUCKThis is me, and I approve this message!!! LMAO :-) Coffee, breakfast, lunch, dinner...........

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Doreen

    Offline

    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I love to ride my motorcycle, most water sports, enjoy working out and vacationing anywhere there's a beach. I listen to all types of music, and enjoy going to concerts. I love my friends and family, and would do anything for them! I enjoy doing anything from skydiving, to just chillin and watching a movie. I'm looking for a man between ***yrs old who is a hard worker, but has enough time to enjoy life, he is respectful, and respectable, trusting, honest, secure, fun, and has a great sense of humor. Tattoos are a plus, but not a must. I LOVE kids, and have a 28yr old son and 3 grandsons, but I'm looking for a man who doesn't have young children, or adult children still living at home although there can always be exceptions. Although I'm a petite 5'2", I prefer a man 5'10"-6'2". This should be interesting being that I've never dated anyone from a singles website. Hope to meet you soon!!

  • Bobbie

    Online

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi I'm here looking for my soulmate. I love all kinds of music except rap. I love to swim get Sun go to the beach .Fish .Camp long drives .or a night at the house with movies and popcorn I'm down to earth kinda girl. Now what I'm looking for Caucasian males sorry I don'tdate out my race my preference l.ooking for man that knows what he wants and wants a good woman always to be there for him and he will do the same for me

  • Ines

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I was married for 26 years when in a single moment my life changed forever and I had no choise but to end that life.I am now raising my children on my own.Two precious boys and three beautiful daughters adopted from Kazakhstan.As my children out number me greatly most would think my days are hard. When in reality they are not, my days with my kids are wonderful and truely never dull...lol I am blessed beyond belief to get to share my life with them.

Follow Us: