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Blanche, 44
United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill

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About Me

I am a Teacher by career & a forever student of life by choice. I have been told I radiate passion about my work and, for this, I am greatful as I am able to do what I love for a living!; enjoy beautifying my home by gardening (veggies & flowers & currently lots O weeds too!)....though currently my garden is quite wild and untended! I have more than 10 tomato plants, that somehow "magically" re-seeded themsleves from last summer, and are perhaps competing against one another to produce the best fruits (& they are yummy!!!!)I am passionate about the power of certain things/energies to transform lives, including MUSIC (which i loveLoveLOVE), movement, Yoga, and above all, the act of contributing, in some way, to the well-being of others : ) The preferred listening in my car is currently NINA SIMONE(always my Nina, she's my #;Gigi", Common,Dead Prez, Esperanza Spaulding.... old Godson is w/me (underline age FOURTEEN...please don't admit if you're over 30 & I have aspirations to travel again to East Africa and would love to reside there for several months, maybe even a year. I love traveling but prefer to be amongst the people who live where I journey..........I am NOT a resort gal, nope not at all...i much prefer the "off the beaten path" route.... lol Yes I voted for OBAMA and yes, I still love him, support him and stand by him; so if you are a "loyal" republican I am quite sure we will not be a match & for sure if you are "pro-life"/anti-choice we will NOT get along....I am proud to have been an "escort" for Planned Parenthood (refered to as a "Deathscort" by the "pro-lifers")& I tend to think women are stronger/smarter (lol) then men (sorry if that pisses u off, im just being honest!)........Hmmmmm what else to add here....oh, any day i'd prefer jeans & my converse sneaks over "dressing up" yuk, i am def not a fancy/dress-up and go out clubbing type of gal....I am NoT at all interested in the kind of car U drive but i do want to know what drives your HeARt's passion........i love this little saying,"Injustice Anywhere is a Threat to Justice Everywhere," cuz it sure is & usually when i see an injustice, i don't keep my mouth shut! do you? Something that stimulates conversation & discovery of each others values, interests, aspirations, dreams....it's not so much the place that matters as the person and his/her heart and the connection and energy between 2 people....big plus if u can make me laugh without me knowing you're trying lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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