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About Me

I am a smart, loyal, confident, outgoing woman. I try to stay positive and always see the best in people. Someone who's not afraid to express his feelings and have a meaningful conversation. A man who has his own interests but can't wait until we can spend time together. Honesty is key. I have 2 children who will always come first in my life but I'd like to find that special someone who will be a close second.I love all sorts of music and sports and am always open to trying new things. Being outdoors is one of my favorite things. I love to travel and spend time with my children and family. We always manage to have a good time. I'm fortunate enough to have a small handful of good friends in my life and I will not toss them aside for anyone. A good life is about finding that right balance. I am just as comfortable in blue jeans watching a football game as I am dressed up enjoying a nice dinner and bottle of wine. I like to think I can fit into almost any situation. I exercise regularly and try to live as healthy a lifestyle as possible. That's not to say I don't enjoy a burger and a beer on occasion. BTW: all my pics were taken within the last 6 months... I like to meet for coffee initially. Afterall that first meeting feels more like an interview than anything else. You will either have a connection with someone or you won't and I appreciate when someone is upfront and tells me that I'm just not for them. I will do the same for you. If we hit it off and things go well, meeting for a drink is always a nice next step.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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  • Caroline

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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