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Helene, 41

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Well, I had this filled out all nice and pretty on my Iphone, but apparently, if you swipe the wrong way, it just erases everything you spent the last hour on FOREVER.... (sigh) Hi! I'm trying this again to see if I have better luck. I'm a farmer's daughter and I love living in the country. I work in downtown St. Louis Monday through Friday, but I really enjoy coming home to the peace/quiet and fresh air. I'm the oldest of three kids (I'm the only girl) and I can be a tomboy. I can get cleaned up really nice but feel most comfortable in a pair of jeans and my hair in a ponytail. I can (and do) cuss like a sailor (mostly when aggravated) but I have a big heart and would do anything for my family and closest friends. I have a soft spot for animals... cats especially. I love dogs too, but my cat is my baby and she runs the house. :-) I love to cook when time allows for it. I work a lot of hours in the legal industry and unfortunately sometimes it's just cereal for supper. But when I do get to cook, my brother is my biggest fan when it comes feeding time. LOL I'm fortunate to have such a tight-knit family. We are protective of each other and love to laugh. Apparently, being a chronic smart ass is hereditary and the laughter is contagious. Having a sense of humor is big for me. Common sense is another trait that seems to be lacking nowadays... I don't have any kids of my own but I am the "Crazy Aunt T" to my niece and nephews. I would love to have my own kids someday. The bar scene is getting old and I'm looking for new ways to meet people. But I guess if it was easy, everybody could do it, right? In my downtime from work, I like to read (it helps to put me to sleep... until I drop the book on my face, then I can read a few more chapters...LOL) I also love shopping, antiquing, wineries, road trips, sight seeing, flea markets (People of Walmart has NOTHING on what you can see at flea markets), sending care packages to the military, stargazing, all kinds of music except rap (although I can handle Eminem when driving home from work some days), getting dirty in the garden or whatever new landscaping idea my mom comes up with, driving the field roads with dad, playing dress up with my niece or geek games with my nephews, I prefer the mountains over the beaches, and prefer fall weather/snow over ***degrees. However, I cannot swim, ski or skate, but I can make one heck of a snow angel followed by hot chocolate and snuggling by the fireplace. I'm not interested in one night stands, head games, sexting, or FWBs, so if that's what you're wanting, I'm sorry. I'm looking for a man between the ages of 37 and 42.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lydia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am 45 yrs old, looking to get out and date again. I spent the last 20 yrs really focused on raising my family and my career. I have 2 kids both over 18 and out of the house on their own. I have 1 grandchild. I want to meet new people that will hopefully develop into a relationship or just make some new friends. I like the simple things in life. I don't need fancy things or to travel to fancy places. Going out to eat, movies, grabbing a few drinks. Or just cuddling on the couch watching TV or a DVD. I like road trips especially the ones that are spontaneous. Get the car and drive. I like long walks a long the lake, camping, fishing, biking and the SOX. I like watching football and basketball on TV, never been to a Bears or Bulls game but try to get the Cell every chance I get. I don’t watch much TV because of my hours so I watch a lot of TV on DVD. I work really crazy hours, but willing to make some sacrifice to meet people. I love what I do; I work in the medical field and in social service part time. I like all kinds of music but classical. Causual somewhere were we could just talk and see if we have any chemistry. Meet for a drink, at the pier, or lake front if the weather is nice.

  • Karen

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I have four children ranging in ages of 22 yrs to 13 yrs the oldest is the only one that lives with me and I have 4 wonderful grandkids . I'm independent, open minded, don't play games at all and don't like them played on me in anyway. My friends say I'm laid back, easy to get along with, fun and love to laugh and make others laugh and I'm good hearted. I like to do all sorts of various crafts, shoot pool, movies, cuddling etc. I love my music I'm in to the newer music of today but love some tunes from the 60's, 70's, and the 80's for sure mostly rock but country as well.I'm looking for someone who shares the same interests, I'm far from being into one night stands, hook ups, or a friend with benefits, I've been single for over 6 yrs. now and if that's what you're looking for keep looking cause I'm not the one. I'm a one man woman who is completely faithful and expect the same from my partner. I'm in search of something substantial and long term....friends first and see where that takes us. And let me please also state that I do NOT in anyway share pictures of myself not clothed nor do anything of the such on webcam I'm not comfortable in doing so that's just how I am and I don't think that by sharing these things before even meeting is just way off base and wrong I do prefer a more romantic approach call me a prude however I will not change nor budge on this so don't even bother asking or trying to make me feel bad by trying to push me into it. If you can handle that keep reading, if not well keep looking.And just let me state for the record, just because I'm disabled it don't mean by any means at all that I'm looking for a hand out, or to be taken care of, I'm able and do get around on my own and I don't need anyone to support me if I can get something I want, I get it myself, if I can't get it I will save for it or it just wasn't meant to be, I do take care of myself in that area. Also just because I'm a bigger woman don't mean by any means that I'm desperate in anyway while I don't like being alone, who does, I'm doing just fine being that way in you're into playing mind games or think that because I'm bigger I will just bow down and do whatever it is you say because I"m afraid of losing you....if that's what you think when you see my picture well then some rethinking on your part is in order cause I'm not that kind of woman. I may have been in the past played for a fool big time but don't mistake me for one. If I sense red flags from you I will call you out on them.If this sounds like you, or if you have any other questions please feel free to drop me a message. If you don't like my profile or the fact that I'm a bigger woman well good luck in your search cause you just have no clue of what you're missing!!!!!Thanks for checking out my page.....

  • John

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi, I am an easy going person who loves to get out and have fun! Drives, hikes, walks, going to concerts or flea markets, monster trucks, races and much more. I can also sit at home and watch tv or just hang out. Please if your out to play games just move on. I've had enough and really want to find someone who is serious about getting to know each other. Thank you and good luck! To be determined! ;)

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