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Stacey, 42

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About Me

Still looking for the person, who is accepting of themselves and others, has a generous heart and an open mind, knows and has experienced compassion, and affection, and communicates well.I am a musician, it is not just a hobby, it pays the bills. I love music, but I also like to step away from my job and hear about other things and interests. I also teach, and it is the most rewarding job.I love Aruba, have visited many times, don't know if i will get back there, but I can highly recommend it.I am a girly-girl, but I can also throw on a baseball cap and be out the door in 5 minutes.I love to laugh.I have many goals in life, the first one is to just live each day, as life has taught me that it can all be gone quickly. so have fun out there people!!Finally, if you want to know me, inquire about me... not just "hey".. I find I am more apt to respond to real *** an added thought, gentlemen, please do not show me pics of yourself in your underwear in front of the bathroom mirror, it is not a turn-on, but rather a turn-off. Please be respectful of yourself and others. that is the end of my scolding, thank you for listening..lol First dates should be spontaneous. Coffe shops and the like. Dinner comes after you know that you actually like each other :}

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    What is this Build-A-Mate? hahaI've recently relocated here over the summer. I absolutely love it here so far and am just gettinglife on track, but I love the challenge of starting over professionally and personally. ProfessionallyI owned a title insurance agency that I closed. Personally, I've been separated over 2 years***hadnothing to do with the other, the business I had for 11 years, him only 4...hahaha...yes, this girlhas one hell of a sense of humor and can be.. well..a little feisty or at least a bit of a handful, buthey....life will always be interesting and most of the time you will be shaking your head smilingif not laughing your ass off:)....all I'm looking for is ....A GROWN MAN...well, if this is thebuild-a-boyfriend-website...kinda reminds me of build-a-bear workshop in the mall...I will take tall, if you are 5'9 to 6' around there I'm real happy, if you are 6'1-6'2 I'm smilingreal hard, if you are 6'3 and taller...hell..I'm going climb you like a jungle jim!...lmao..(clothes on, I am a good girl!).see...feisty, and you are shaking your head, aren't you) :)Ok, now let's get to serious...I do have that side too...I just want a real southern gentlemanand a man who knows how to be a real man...someone who takes care of himselfso he is not my new oldest son, someone who is just polite, cares for me, enjoys me,is respectful, honorable, a man of his word, works hard and plays even harder, loves tolaugh and most important, makes me laugh, and just smile....and is very affectionatebecause I am a true to life cuddle cake...I make affectionate look cold :)...see, I just am whoI am, never try to be something I'm not or pretend to be anything but me...If you like me, greatif you don't that's fine too and move on...life's way to short to not enjoy the ride! oh yea, I loveto ride, land and water baby! yyiiippeeeee! and I also am of stronnnggggg faith, God willalways be the first man in my life. **I'M LOOKING FOR MY PARTNER IN CRIME FOR THEREST OF MY TIME:):):)******* somewhere quite, even a long walk or drive just getting to know the basics and see if there is a "click", no pressure - go from there.

  • Delia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well lets see,...I am a mother of 4 boys ages ***I am also the MiMi of 4 adorable grandsons :) **UPDATE** I now have 2 more grandsons through marriage and another due in a few more weeks, also a boy...anybody see a theme going on...lolI have been divorced since Dec of '97, I've done this twice but still believe in a forever kind of love! I am looking for a real man, you know the ones...still hold open doors, kisses hands and foreheads, loves his Mamma, couldn't imagine hitting a woman, he can hang with his friends but isn't afraid to let them know that he loves & is loved, and while he's had a great time hanging with them, he can't wait to get home to spend time with his lady, whether that means going out or just sitting on sofa snuggling and watching a movie. I am a simple Southern Woman who enjoys a simple lifestyle.I could spend the next few minutes typing all the qualities that I am searching for but its easier to say that I am looking for a Good Man, because a good man already has all that I want. I am looking for the man who will hold the key to my heart, as treasured as I will hold the key to his. Ok fellas think outside of the box...; take a slow walk.Movies are great but how much are you able to talk without getting asked to ssshhhh!!!! :)It should just be something where we will both be comfortable, not so much a date as a meet & greet

  • Latoya

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking to meet people in the area. I don't want to sound harsh but if this is your random hook-up site, you can pass me up. No judgments, I wish you luck with your next connection but it won't be me. I want a new category since I am interested in dating until I find the right someone. I am looking for a relationship but I'm not interested in rushing to find it, looking for the right one not just the most convenient one, so for now I'm looking to date. That said I am also open to new friends as long as we're keeping things platonic. I enjoy doing almost anything that includes time with people whose company I enjoy. I believe that life is short and needs to be celebrated so that is what I try to do. I have let my slightly A.D.D. interests guide my life into many areas which I have enjoyed but now in getting tired of being alone in my adventures so looking for someone to be included in the adventure when they want. Friends, dinner/movie partners, maybe more with the right person but only if it feels right for us both. I'm not very traditional so I just want to see where it goes.I like photography, movies (both in and out), cooking for someone, hiking (just not super hard core), been a while since I went camping but I enjoy it, bowling, put-put (do they have that here?).I have a few transportation challenges to work around until I get my car shipped up here but I manage. :)Hope to hear from you, The 1st date or the 1st meeting? I like to get together casually first to see if a date is even in the works. Find out how easily we can chat and if we have interests in common or not. The "shared beverage" encounter, coffee/ tea or a beer or 2 just to be comfortable enough to move on. Then comes the first date. I like to cook or be cooked for (very hot! Lol!) on the first date. You get to learn a lot about a person in their own personal space. It is low key. So not super stressful and gives the chance to really talk. Now don't get me wrong, I don't mind a nice dinner out but it can be more disjointed. Waiters & other people all around. I think you get more of "the show" than the real person and sometimes I don't like to play the game. What you see is what you get with me. Lol!

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