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Elise, 42

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About Me

After being married for 20+yrs dating has become a new adventure. I like to think of myself as out going and ready to try new things. I am looking for someone who I can become friends with and hopefully grow into a serious relationship. I have recently changed my status because some of the guys I have been meeting are missing the step of being friends and getting to know each other before moving to the "getting serious" stage. I am looking for someone who is comfortable in being together but at the same time still makes time for themselves and doesn't need me to approve of their choices. I am a rare breed on this one guys. :-) lol. I think of myself as old fashion as I am not interested in dating anyone younger than myself. So any of you ***I am very self sufficient and honest to a fault.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Monique

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Ok is there no one normal on here??? I do not want to jump into bed with u. I will not have sex in a group setting. Umm what else??? It's easy to get overwhelmed on here. I'd like to meet people to do things with even just as friends or casual dating. Wouldn't necessarily turn down the right guy but a serious relationship isn't what I'm looking for right now. I am trying to get in shape and love to go to the gym ***nights a week. Got a ways to go but I'm enjoying the process so far:). If u would like to hang out or make a new friend, drop a line. Just coffee for starters and go from there

  • Lela

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm looking for someone that adds value to my life. I work very hard and would like to spend my free time with someone whom takes my breath away physically, emotionally and intellectually. High aspirations, I know, but I deserve it. Life is short. I believe I've wasted too much time waiting for the right time or after the project du jour is finished. . So, I'm a jeans and t shirt girl at heart, however I clean up nicely. I like a variety of music, everything from Linkin Park, Creed and Santana to Timbaland and the Black Eyed Peas. I currently love Maroon 5. I love the outdoors, mental stimulation - although I can veg like the best potato, and I'll try almost anything once. I don't believe in having a relationship over texts, you lose the context of the conversation and the verbal and visual cues that identify the person you are communicating with is a nut. (I've heard there are many on this site - you know who you are!!) I'm looking for someone close in age to me as we'll as proximity. Anywhere we can chat and see if there is a spark

  • Claudette

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    You only live once....but if you do it right. Once is enough!…. Yes, that is the Lonestar State and yes…..I can two step and shoot a gun (doesn’t everyone….LOL). When I am not working, I am spending time with my children or hanging out with friends. The philosophy of work hard ….play hard would be an accurate description. I look forward to my time off. I will admit, I am not typically a home body. I like to “go and do”. I am very social and love people. A perfect weekend could include grabbing a bite to eat…….(It could be a local dive or an up & coming hot spot……either would do just fine), maybe catching a movie, playing a game of pool (I am not a pool shark……but not quite a guppy either..HA.), going to a winery, car show, bike adventure, festival, boating, ....or it could include doing almost nothing at all…..just cuddling up on the sofa with a good book or a movie and enjoying some downtime.I'd like to spend my time with someone who likes to have fun, embraces the moment, is curious, not afraid to try new things and makes me smile and laugh. Let’s go for a ride or find the perfect place for a picnic. How about driving to the lake or a local event? Let’s go find something fun to do………….I like to try new things and would enjoy having a partner in crime for the adventures.I am looking for a serious relationship…….but realize it takes time, patience and sometimes a great capacity for laughter. I am not looking to change you nor do I want someone to change me. I seek to better myself and learn from life but I am secure in who I am. I do believe compromise and good communication is key to any great relationship.People ask me, “What I am looking for”? I would tell you I am a very affectionate and passionate individual who wants the same in a partner. It's not about the grand gestures. Its about the simple, " thoughtful" gestures. Like hearing from you in the middle of the day, remembering a special moment or being my friend when I'm in need of one. I want to be able to laugh with you and be so comfortable with you….I can laugh at myself when necessary. I want someone as comfortable in a suit as they are in a pair of jeans. You would like the outdoors, enjoy live music, dance when the music moves you, enjoy endless conversations, holding hands and kissing. I am a strong personality and attracted to men who are not afraid to take the lead. Most of all…..I want you to be authentic …..be yourself……..you might be the one I am looking for. Clarification on what separated means to me. I am an honest individual and feel must be up front. I have been in an unsatisfying relationship for many years and have been separated for several years. The ex lives in a different residence and divorce will be finalized in October. There is no drama. We are healthy role models for our children.

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