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Allyson, 43

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Big #***if you don't read my profile and understand who I am and what I'm looking for, then please don't message me. I'm really looking for a soul mate, someone who can be my partner in the things that I love. This doesn't mean I'm not open to the things you love, but I want to be able to connect with someone. If the things in my profile don't interest you, then I'm not the one for you.That being said...I am a big hearted, compassionate yet somewhat sarcastic woman who is looking for a good man to get to know; to be friends or whatever happens. I have a 20 year old daughter who is my best friend, she's awesome. I love to spend time with friends and family and my idea of a perfect night is getting together, having good food and drink (wine :P), laughing and enjoying each other's company. I really like cooking and it brings joy to my heart to make people happy and be able to say nothing but "Mmmmm!" when I cook for them. I am also a total geek. I love Star Wars, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, online role playing games, dragons and fairies and going to Renaissance Festivals or Sci-Fi/Anime conventions, etc. But I'm pretty easy to please. Just be HONEST and genuine, and please be serious about wanting to find someone, because I am. Having a good sense of humor doesn't hurt either ;).I'm looking for a guy that will make me feel like I'm important to them. I want someone to make me laugh and take initiative! Having similar interests is very important, so when I start going on about RPGs, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, etc they don't get glassy eyes and check out like a lot of my friends, haha! I love geek culture so getting to know each other on that level and having little inside jokes about stuff is fun! As I said up above, be honest, genuine, be yourself! Coffee places are the best. You can usually find a secluded place to get comfortable, sip on a yummy drink and talk. I like to drink wine, but bars are not a good place to meet up, too noisy. If the weather is nice, the lake is nice too.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rachael

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Here I go! ....again.;10 are going to be too short for my tall frame. I am 5"9 and wear some sort of heel most all of the time. Just being honest here. I don't like to feel bigger than the guy I date. Sorry. Thanks for understanding)I am a single mom, divorced 7 years. I have a beautiful 10 year old daughter!! Looking for a partner. "Player's" need not apply.......I Have a big thing about being honest!Love to travel!!!!!- love European culture!). Go snow skiing every year, and fly off to some type of island vacation at least once a year or take a cruise, as well! Like to dine out, listen to music, partake in outdoor activities (tends to be a lot of weed-pulling around my home,unfortunately), and do things with my 10 ,going on 16, year old daughter. Also... love to snuggle and be lazy sometimes!!! I am very independent, and have acomplished a lot on my own. Would like to find a partner that can enhance my life experience, and give me butterflies:) and vice versa- of course!! Looking for someone that is intelligent, honest, soulful, and one that can give lots of affection! If you close up completely when we have an argument and don't like to communicate much - we may not be the best fit...I should underline honest, because I have no tolerance for liars. Honesty gets you everywhere with me. Hey, if you can fix things and cook - you get extra points!!! Or if you have Dimples!!!!!PS... please send or attach picture if you do not have one on profile... I won't respond to a blank face... Thanks! :) Also, if you are wearing sunglasses in pic, please post one where I can see your face!!! Eyes are very important to me!! Won't reply to sunglassed men with caps... C'mon guys! Need to SEE you! Up to you.....Like a man that takes charge... or I will, and I prefer you do!!!

  • Lupe

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I hate this part. Umm. Ok. Let’s see. I'm pretty laid back most of the time, I love to laugh and I live a happy life. I have a good job, a drama free life and it doesn't bother me to be single. But- if I could find a compatible person to share time with, that would be icing on the cake. I love road trips. I tend to stay about as busy as I want to be, even though declining invites can be difficult. I have learned to take some down time. I listen to music of nearly all genres, aside from opera and classical. I don’t mind going out occasionally, but I’m not an every weekend clubber. I may partake in a few adult beverages, smoke a cig once in awhile, and have been known to howl at the moon on the rare occasion that it’s blue, but otherwise I’m usually mellow. I believe in the Golden Rule, self-pride, integrity, and loyalty. I've never cheated and haven't been cheated on much but I know that many people have been. Mutual trust is essential; I think if you no longer want to be with someone, you should make it known to them. I’ve been single a long time, haven’t really dated much since ***, been busy just having fun and doing my own thing. My profile is offline a lot because I think dating is a total nightmare and I just don’t choose to use my excess patience wading through all the nonsense – it’s not like I have that much to spare to begin with. ;-) Anyway, if you are still reading, and you want to know more, you know what to do. The first time meeting should be in a public place where we can chat and see if there is a spark. I’m a firm believer that there needs to be a physical attraction as well as an intellectual connection.

  • Thelma

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    PLEASE...Don't contact me unless you have read my profile. I believe in Live and Let Live. I Love and Respect others .... regardless of their race or sexual orientation and it is important that whoever I meet/go out with have that same view. If you are a Hater, then move on to another.I enjoy friends and family and my glass is usually always half-full. I am witty and have a good sense of humor, and love to make others laugh. Intelligent and well-rounded. Love to learn something new every day. I try to always treat others like I would want to be treated. Enjoy traveling here and abroad, both for pleasure and for knowledge. Love history and architecture, antique hunting and enjoy cooking. Very outgoing and positive most of the time. Enjoy dining out, theatre, movies, grilling out, gardening, nature (beach or mountains) and my taste in music is extremely varied. I love alternative to classical music. When I leave this world I want to know I have given back and left plenty of good memories behind... and hope that others can look back and say that I had one hell of a ride and enjoyed life to it's fullest. I am wanting to find someone to date and spend free time with. I am not looking to get married. Depends, have to message/talk some first and then decide where, but it will have to be in a public place ... :)

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