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Shawn, 43
United States, Michigan, East Lansing

Offline, last seen Wed, 04 Feb 2026 12:29:56

About Me

After several uninspiring dates, I kind of threw up my hands and took a hiatus. So, I am returning after being away for a few months and thought I would try this again. To be honest, I am a bit bored with the whole dating world. I need someone who is fun, energic, can keep up with my sense of humor and can take my bantering.I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, and family & friends are very important to me. I'm a very generous person in all aspects of my life especially in friendship, family and love. I'm smart and sensitive, although I also tend to be a bit modest too. I am a professional and sometimes too serious when it comes to business. I do consider myself pretty active. With a strong competitive side to me. I play darts on league both soft tip and steel tip. It started out as a way to get me out of the house and meeting new people. It keeps me out of trouble...sometimes. I also enjoy playing softball in the summer. And getting out in the winter and playing. I enjoy going to the gym, belly dancing, and more. I have been single for quite awhile, divorced for the second time with almost 21 years marriage between the two, my girls are grown ***& 22). If you want to know anything else I invite you to send me a message. Please do not send winks as I will not waste my time replying. I also will not reply to anyone with a pictureless profile as I will assume you are married or in a committed relationship and/or hiding something.So, what do you have to lose?OK here is an Important Update: If I have children your age or you are young enough for that my girls could be dating you then you are TOO YOUNG FOR ME!! Sorry Kiddos!! :)PS...Not sure I will be staying on this site much longer. The first time we meet in person I do not consider it a date, but rather a casual meeting. I do not drink coffee and do not expect a fancy dinner. I am open to options but nothing too serious upon first meeting. If, by chance, an opportunity for a real date then we can stress over the details. Until then...let's keep it casual, lite and above all fun!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance Crime Family & Kids Mystery Romance War Baseball Golf
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