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Lela, 43

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About Me

I work for an international technology-based non-profit company and it's very rewarding! I travel a lot for work, both within the US and internationally. I'd love to meet someone who might be up for meeting me at the tail end of international meetings for a little exploring! I also like thrift stores, flea markets and garage sales, hanging out watching movies, and cooking exotic meals. I like people who are smart, funny, goal-oriented, artistic, and compassionate.-conformists. People involved in any form of subculture or counterculture are the people I relate to best. I admire people who are always looking for ways to broaden their minds and are open to new ideas and are interested in learning new things. I would like to meet someone who has a goal that they are working toward and who has a plan for where they're going.I'm very lucky to have more than a few very close friends and a great family, and I love spending time with them. I always try to make time to learn new things and expand my mind. Experiencing new and interesting things is very important to me. I feel that I don't have much in common with people who are static in life and who don't see the opportunities and growth that come with change. I don't like people who are bigoted or mean spirited. Drama and jealousy are major turn-offs. I guess the first date could be drinks (I don't drink coffee...). Second date? Anything out of the norm!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verna

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an intense and insanely busy person, so I'm looking for someone who can match my passion but also will understand when I'm not available all the time. When I'm not working, I love to sing and act and am very involved in the local theatre scene, both as a performer and behind the scenes. I think I really have the best of all worlds in my life, because I get to use my brain at work and then get to feed my soul through my singing and performing. I'm also an incredible geek. I love all things technology and also love sci-fi/fantasy movies and TV. I think what makes me unique is how I balance an incredibly intellectual side with a very creative side. I tried to pick a personality, but none of them really fit me, because I am such a mix of different things, and I don't want to be boxed into any one neat category. However, meetville has decided to force me to choose. Please know that I have done so under protest and am so much more than that one thing. I'm artsy, a movie/TV junkie, a geek, professional, intellectual, an animal lover...and a rockstar.I'm kind of a kid at heart and tend to hang out with people much younger than I. My music tastes are pretty ecclectic. I mostly love anything I can sing along to, which includes musicals, pop, rock, country, and folk. You will find something from each of these genres in my music collection. Pretty much the only music that really doesn't do it for me is rap. I think that's enough for now. Have to leave some mystery... A first date would be casual. Perhaps we would meet for lunch or drinks, maybe dinner. It would really just be about getting to connect, see each other face to face, and have an opportunity to communicate and see if there is any chemistry and interest for a second date.

  • Dale

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well, as a single mom of a 3-yeat-old, my time is rarely my own. Hobbies are something I hope to resume as my child gets older and more involved with school activities. In other words, school activities will likely become my hobbies in a couple years. :-)I really don't want to spend a lot of time trying to convey who I am here when a phone call or two and/or meeting for coffee would tell both of us *** there's any chemistry worth pursuing. That said, I must also tell you that I have very limited availability. Babysitters cost money, and as a 1-income household, we don't have an overabundance of that. So I choose who gets that very precious time with great care. If you don't have pics up on your profile, or are cagey about means of contact, I will not reply. And in the interest of full disclosure, let's get right to the heart of it: I don't require rescuing, but after the # of guys I've talked to that have all been taken advantage of most grievously by conniving, selfish women, I've concluded that guys say they want an independent woman, but at the end of the day, they want to be the hero.-do list. Oh, and he also has to sweep me off my feet. ;-)

  • Grace

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am optimistic, enthusiastic, energetic, spontaneous, adaptable, creative, playful, hard working, and generally fun-loving. I enjoy batting around ideas and finding creative solutions and am intrigued by new possibilities and anything out of the ordinary. I am also warm and caring,and have strong personal values upon which I base most decisions. I think life is an exciting adventure.I love children and babies, the park, the outdoors, motorcycle rides, traveling, scrapbooking, softball, picnics on the beach, or really anything that has to do with the sun and the water. Going to church, the occasional football or baseball game. Lots of other interests as well.I would rather listen to music than watch television. I like all types, from classic rock, contemporary Christian, popular hits, and the 70's.I try to be happy, optimistic, trusting, honest and well rounded. I treat others as I would like to be treated and appreciate the same. I am not perfect and would never claim to be, but I continually strive to be a better person. Above all being a good mother is important to me.That being said, I do have 4 children, ages 22, 19, 16, and 6. They all have the same father. (I get along with my ex and his wonderful girlfriend, btw) The younger 2 live with me. Obviously, if you do not want to accept that I have children, I am not interested. I don't NEED to have more, but the ones I do have are not going anywhere. I also don't mind if you have some. I would actually enjoy it. I am also looking for someone that has a relationship with God and goes to church regularly . I am looking for someone that will treat me special, if you don't want to treat me special, don't waste your time or mine. In return, I will treat you special. :o***Just to let you know; if you are not a Christian, smoke, or do not want someone with children, do not expect a response as those are my absolute must haves.Please be over your ex. Also, if you are bisexual, seriously, I am definitely not interested. Certainly not looking to share.Thank you. :o) I do not want someone who just wants to hang out, I have plenty of friends I could hang out with. Apparently I have to add the fact that I enjoy intimate relations, I am not frigid, and have a high sex drive. When the time is right. I am looking to eventually remarry in order to get lucky frequently. With the same man. I am single, not desperate, I want to settle down, not settle. If you think I am picky, well, maybe it's because I am worth it. You'll have to meet me to find out for sure. ;O) We should also meet before professing your love for me, otherwise you risk appearing stalker-like. If we talk on the phone,and you dominate 90% of the conversation, I might just stop answering it, I certainly want to hear all about you, but I am more than just my photographs. Just sayin. ;o) Trying not to get discouraged by this website, I'm sure sooner or later I'll meet the one perfect for me, but, for real I am not sending nude photos of myself, please don't disrespect me by asking. An ideal first date would be a picnic on the beach, or the swings at the park. Of course a motorcycle or boat ride is always delightful. :o))***Not for nothing, because it seems like most of you don't read the profile, but I do, and the first thing I look at is religion. If you have other, non religious, or new age, I run the other way. And I was born Catholic, it is definitely not the same as Christian. I'm sorry, I just don't see any sense wasting either of our time. I'm looking for forever. And that's a mighty long time. Just sayin'.*** And not looking to text endlessly if we are both interested we should meet, like in real life.

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