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Mercedes, 41
United States, New York, Hempstead

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Hello there! Okay, here's a little bit about myself...I am a Guidance Counselor in a public K-8 school. I love my job and wouldn't want to do anything else. To make this easier, I asked some friends to describe me and here are the results: fun-loving, sweet, adventurous, motivated, family oriented, considerate of other's feelings, and energetic. I am quick-to-smile and somewhat inquisitive! I enjoy all sorts of activities and will pretty much try anything once - I’ve gone sky diving, cliff diving and accomplished the knee-hang catch on a flying trapeze! I enjoy fine dining, traveling to tropical islands, rollerblading, roller coasters, hiking, some snow skiing, pistol shooting, obstacle/adventure running/races (i.e.: Tough Mudder 2x), and CrossFit for exercise! I am the type that loves getting dressed up and going to a nice restaurant one night and maybe camping out by a fire the next; I can suit the occasion and enjoy doing so. I spent a great deal of time in college and working hard. I own my own home and am financially independent. Ive had several (very) long term relationships (8 years, 7 years, and 6 years each) and although none of them developed into a life-long future, I feel that I am a better person because of them.I have fulfilled all of my academic and career goals and hope to meet a man who has done the same...hence, who is ready for a committed relationship. I am looking for someone who I can share myself with - someone who will be my love, as well as my best friend. I am finally ready to meet the man who I am meant to be with. Although I am not looking for a relationship that is only "convenient", I have tried the long-distance thing once or twice and have found it difficult. I do also understand that everyone is on their best behavior during the get-to-know-you stage...which is why I do not tend to jump into things. I will try to be as up-front as possible in this.Having said that, I prefer to meet sooner than later. As much as I appreciate good writing technique, as illustrated in *** &/or text messages, I would much rather meet early on to determine if there is a spark between us - which is absolutely necessary!! ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

South American Thai Turkish Family & Kids Music Thriller Basketball Dance
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

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  • Verna from Hempstead | Woman | 42 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am an intense and insanely busy person, so I'm looking for someone who can match my passion but also will understand when I'm not available all the time. When I'm not working, I love to sing and act and am very involved in the local theatre scene, both as a performer and behind the scenes. I think I really have the best of all worlds in my life, because I get to use my brain at work and then get to feed my soul through my singing and performing. I'm also an incredible geek. I love all things technology and also love sci-fi/fantasy movies and TV. I think what makes me unique is how I balance an incredibly intellectual side with a very creative side. I tried to pick a personality, but none of them really fit me, because I am such a mix of different things, and I don't want to be boxed into any one neat category. However, meetville has decided to force me to choose. Please know that I have done so under protest and am so much more than that one thing. I'm artsy, a movie/TV junkie, a geek, professional, intellectual, an animal lover...and a rockstar.I'm kind of a kid at heart and tend to hang out with people much younger than I. My music tastes are pretty ecclectic. I mostly love anything I can sing along to, which includes musicals, pop, rock, country, and folk. You will find something from each of these genres in my music collection. Pretty much the only music that really doesn't do it for me is rap. I think that's enough for now. Have to leave some mystery... A first date would be casual. Perhaps we would meet for lunch or drinks, maybe dinner. It would really just be about getting to connect, see each other face to face, and have an opportunity to communicate and see if there is any chemistry and interest for a second date.

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  • Alberta from Hempstead | Woman | 43 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Recently divorced and relocated to MA. I didn't run away....I started over. Love it here! I'm surrounded by family and great friends. I work hard, play harder. Like to keep busy but like to lay around in sweats and a T-shirt too. Drives to no where. Talks about nothing and everything. Make me laugh and your in!I am as genuine as they get. I have lived. Got a story for everything and I will make you laugh just from my laugh alone. I am not a barbie type...but not obese. I am fit. Used to play hockey and a graduate from the police academy. Love all kinds of music, except country. rather rip my eyes out with a stick than listen to country. Love to dance and be silly. A bit of a wise ass but in the end have a huge heart! Want to know anything, just ask, cuz I WILL tell you. haha. Must have job, car, license and teeth! I'm not your f*** buddy or your sexting buddy! Keep it real boys.... You tell me?

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