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Grace, 42
United States, New York, Hempstead

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About Me

I am optimistic, enthusiastic, energetic, spontaneous, adaptable, creative, playful, hard working, and generally fun-loving. I enjoy batting around ideas and finding creative solutions and am intrigued by new possibilities and anything out of the ordinary. I am also warm and caring,and have strong personal values upon which I base most decisions. I think life is an exciting adventure.I love children and babies, the park, the outdoors, motorcycle rides, traveling, scrapbooking, softball, picnics on the beach, or really anything that has to do with the sun and the water. Going to church, the occasional football or baseball game. Lots of other interests as well.I would rather listen to music than watch television. I like all types, from classic rock, contemporary Christian, popular hits, and the 70's.I try to be happy, optimistic, trusting, honest and well rounded. I treat others as I would like to be treated and appreciate the same. I am not perfect and would never claim to be, but I continually strive to be a better person. Above all being a good mother is important to me.That being said, I do have 4 children, ages 22, 19, 16, and 6. They all have the same father. (I get along with my ex and his wonderful girlfriend, btw) The younger 2 live with me. Obviously, if you do not want to accept that I have children, I am not interested. I don't NEED to have more, but the ones I do have are not going anywhere. I also don't mind if you have some. I would actually enjoy it. I am also looking for someone that has a relationship with God and goes to church regularly . I am looking for someone that will treat me special, if you don't want to treat me special, don't waste your time or mine. In return, I will treat you special. :o***Just to let you know; if you are not a Christian, smoke, or do not want someone with children, do not expect a response as those are my absolute must haves.Please be over your ex. Also, if you are bisexual, seriously, I am definitely not interested. Certainly not looking to share.Thank you. :o) I do not want someone who just wants to hang out, I have plenty of friends I could hang out with. Apparently I have to add the fact that I enjoy intimate relations, I am not frigid, and have a high sex drive. When the time is right. I am looking to eventually remarry in order to get lucky frequently. With the same man. I am single, not desperate, I want to settle down, not settle. If you think I am picky, well, maybe it's because I am worth it. You'll have to meet me to find out for sure. ;O) We should also meet before professing your love for me, otherwise you risk appearing stalker-like. If we talk on the phone,and you dominate 90% of the conversation, I might just stop answering it, I certainly want to hear all about you, but I am more than just my photographs. Just sayin. ;o) Trying not to get discouraged by this website, I'm sure sooner or later I'll meet the one perfect for me, but, for real I am not sending nude photos of myself, please don't disrespect me by asking. An ideal first date would be a picnic on the beach, or the swings at the park. Of course a motorcycle or boat ride is always delightful. :o))***Not for nothing, because it seems like most of you don't read the profile, but I do, and the first thing I look at is religion. If you have other, non religious, or new age, I run the other way. And I was born Catholic, it is definitely not the same as Christian. I'm sorry, I just don't see any sense wasting either of our time. I'm looking for forever. And that's a mighty long time. Just sayin'.*** And not looking to text endlessly if we are both interested we should meet, like in real life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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