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Haley, 45

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About Me

I'm loving my life. I feel happy, satisfied, confident, sexy, open, aware, optimistic, embodied, groovy, grateful. My life is cake. Ideally relationships are the icing - that which makes all of it just a little sweeter, and gooier.I don't think there is much point in trying to describe myself, since how I am (not who I am) can be a bit different with different people; I've just experienced that there seems to be a unique 'dance' to every relationship; different people bring out different aspects in me. Generally (and I think because I am a creative person), I enjoy being strong, focused and independent, and therefor I want a man who I can relax into; somebody who can be strong, confident, capable, centered, decisive. In terms of emotional compatibility, I adore generous, mature masculinity. And generally, I find that it is candour, transparency and congruence that makes a person courageous, attractive and trustworthy. I value being genuine and straightforward more than ever in my life. Perhaps that comes with age, I'm sure it does to some degree, either way, I find it a turn-on to meet love and life that way. Some of the things that I love in life... tearing around the endowment lands on horseback, animals (OMG where would we be without them!!!), music - can't begin to tell you how much, beauty/art/design/aesthetics, searing wit, receiving love!!, loving, dancing, authenticity, cuddles &- best cat in the universe, sheets, color, warmth, rainy days, time freedom, serial multiple orgasms, Europe, progressive thought and action, mayonnaise, DJ-ing, my soul, the rush you get when inspiration hits you, or when I am being bigger than myself (giving, generous, helpful), sexy text messages, the invulnerability you feel when you accept yourself, funky dressers, personal victories - I live for those!!!, perfume. Meow. Over to you... Let talk about first dates with their tendency to consist of: lots of posturing, awkward silences, reams of anxious chatter, fake laughter, sales pitches, clammy hands, agreeing on everything, bumping teeth with the first kiss and dying to say what we really feel... While we do all of that too like every other boy and girl on the planet on their first date.Then lets somehow fast forward 6 months down the line to where we are totally comfortable with each other and can actually be ourselves.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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