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Blanca, 43
United States, Delaware, Dover

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Touch her heart; not her body.Steal her attention; not her happiness.Make her smile; don't waste her tears.I DON'T DRINK OR DO DRUGS !!THE MEANING OF MY TATOO:Koi Tattoos:According to Japanese legend, if a koi succeeded in climbing the falls at a point called Dragon Gate on the Yellow River, it would be transformed into a dragon. Based on that legend, it became a symbol of worldly aspiration and advancement. More generally, the Japanese associate koi (also known as carp) with perseverance in adversity and strength of purpose. Because of its strength and determination to overcome obstacles, it stands for courage and the ability to attain high goals. "JUST NEW FRIENDS" ~don't message me or even try with me if you just wanna fk, , i don't want your germs, or you to waste my time ~ ~No offence ~ please if you message me. ~~~~~(HAVE A PICTURE OF YOU OR, I WILL NOT RESPOND )~~~~~ I do not like beards,or if they have back hair , (some stubble is ok tho)i don't like kissing men who drink every day, i'm also NOT into guys my age ***only . ~smiles~I'M 42 YEARS OLD , DON'T THINK I'M NOT http://youtu.be/ayh1LD-sNn8My paths are clear across the moonNot searching for love that's found too soonThough it won't wait 'til old and grayBut voyage for where it will cease to strayThe Clod & the Pebbleby William Blake:Love seeketh not Itself to please,Nor for itself hath any care;But for another gives its ease,And builds a Heaven in Hell's despair. So sang a little Clod of Clay, Trodden with the cattle's feet;Love seeketh only Self to please,To bind another to It's delight:Joys in another's loss of ease,And builds a Hell in Heavens despite.; The winds of heaven mix forever, With a sweet emotion; Nothing in the world is single; All things by a law divine In one another's being mingle;-- Why not I with thine? See the mountains kiss high heaven, And the waves clasp one another; No sister flower would be forgiven, If it disdain'd its brother; And the sunlight clasps the earth, And the moonbeams kiss the sea;-- What are all these kissings worth, If thou kiss not me?"All riches have their origin in mind. Wealth is in ideas - not money." -"It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good, too, to check up once in a while and make sure that you haven't lost the things that money can't buy." It is preoccupation with possessions, more than anything else, that prevents us from living freely and nobly.Three great forces rule the world: stupidity, fear and greed. ***JesusA new study revealed partners who believed that financial gain and materialistic worth was important, showed less satisfaction in their marital health.Well , drinking and parties and bars are not my thing, i don't drink so watching others get silly is not my idea of a good time , i have never been dancing , so if one was to take me dancing i would more then likely end up stepping on your toes -laughs-I'm not intrested in one night stands or friends with benifits . So no offence if you are i'm not the kinda lady for you..I also wont meet up with anyone after talking for the first time , call me odd i don't care , but for me i like to get to know someone before meeting , i have been single and not dating anyone for 5 years , so i'm a bit careful.I do however love coffee and walks ,Art and basicly anything nature wise or creative.I think small dogs are not dogs at all , to me big dogs are a DOG .......,also... if a match in a relationship way doesn't work , i'm more then happy to make friends . So no pressure at all, like i said i haven't dated in 5 years ..but one can always use friends . i am 42 make no mistake i have gray hair i earned every damn one of them to ((,i'm slightly chubby.,so if your looking for your perfect super model ..))i might not be the one for you , i'm Avg and i like my avg self ,,ok wait..I LOVE MY AVG SELF i'm NOT gay or bi so lady's ...don't message me please !so guys good luck fishing and if you say your looking for a relationship and know what you want , then mean it!!! , if not and you have to decide how you feel all of a sudden , then do all us lady's a favor whom know who and what they want ,and change your profile info to" just dating" THANKS ,be safe to you all.WARNING ~Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information; violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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