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Rena, 45
United States, Delaware, Dover

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About Me

First of all I am not interested in taking you to the cleaners!I am a light-hearted gal... uncomplicated and lead an honest life with a generous hint of sassy in the mix. A balance of flavours!:D Established, busy on becoming more established, educated, hard working, mindful with a strong sense of self. Loving and affectionate, I'm very soft hearted and live by 'The Golden Rule'...time waits for no one... I'm not into guessing games only an honest beginning, allowing us to get to know one another. Just be REAL... for REAL!iPast relationships have been processed with gaining life experience and wisdom along the way...Interested in those who can offer intellect and actually read for pleasure(please humour me to have read at least up to here!), are wishing to share in life's miracles with the addition of plenty of laughter, open to peaceful argument without judgement and accepting each other for our true authentic selves, imperfectly perfect...listening and learning... No more exes for me... patient in allowing the mystery to reveal itself, as it should. Can't say I have a particular 'type', all of these photos in front of us with no idea of what story that person holds, how funny they may be, what makes them tick or what little quirks they may have. We all have much to offer and having an open heart is the needed start...') I enjoy cooking in and dining out including taking in the city and all of its offerings. Packing my picnic basket while exploring new or preferred destinations is always fun too, road trips are great and lately I've been up for zip lining together. Since I work hard and have a sincere passion for my profession, I really appreciate my downtime.:D Strong in character, assertive when necessary and compassionate always... The process unfolds naturally, the moment is all we have so we must be present with it and enjoy... looking forward to each next time with those endorphins racing... 'DEnjoying each others' company with quick witted banter are what work for me, mutual humour makes for a good fit!:DThere's something to be said for humility which I find attractive...subtle charisma. ;D Having separate interests is healthy, but sharing those we do have in common are that much better. Sunny days exploring and rainy nights cooking together... In patient search for a soul connection with the balance of you and me...I write to creatively vent and books are like CANDY!!! Sure I take care of myself and have lots of pretty shoes, but thankfully intellect and knowledge mean so much more. Believe in chivalry and romance, mutual respect, and appreciate a man who is INTEGRAL,(which means you're HONEST of course), SINCERE, well groomed with finesse, (stylish & sexy) and... is mechanically inclined (I'll cook for you):D. Have no use for ego as it is a false state of self, however it's a daily process to keep it in check. I am a true girlie girl but I'm able to dress for any occasion. If you have an interest and appreciation in food and wine, then I'm sure the conversation will easily flow with plenty of laughter in between. I take care of my mind and body on a daily basis and welcome those who are good to themselves as well. Sensuality comes naturally... It's about balance and substance...healthy eating (the chef in me)and mindfulness(the yogi in me)...my body is active and fit and I work on keeping it that way, maintain maintain... I have a very close family along with a loyal group of friends, who are just as social as I. Down to earth and upstanding, productive citizens of society...really! Simply adore my little pooch...and so does everyone else!* If I added you to my Favourites List, it's simply my way of letting you know I am interested. I'm more traditional when it comes to the male doing the persuing. ")* Please DON'T be a smoker, sorry but 'occasionally' means you smoke unless it's a celibratory cigar.* If you're looking for a 'fling thing', I'm not your girl. There are 'plenty' of others who can help you & out with JUST that. *Have a recent photo where I can see your eyes*What's up with those who fib regarding their age?! You are what you are and really should be content with that.:D*Like animals*Be sincere and cookies for you...*Enjoy life!- BTW - N/A (re; vehicle situation) IS applicable... as I do much driving and need to be a passenger at times too! ") It will naturally unfold after our telephone conversation(s). Since laughter is necessary, it will be fun!One cannot push the river...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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