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Janie, 41

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About Me

I have tried this site before so to you who are still here, Hello ;)I could say i am divorced as that as the truth, but after almost 15 years of being divorced, I'd likely now say I am single, don't you think?I sure hoped by now I would have found the love of my life that understands what the word committment means, but I haven't so I am still looking and hopefully I will meet you.I listen well, have a quirky sense of humor, can find the good in almost anyone, happy for others' accomplishments, enjoy diversity, like trying new things, etc.I own my own home, worked myself to the bone the last year to save for it, so I am happy to have something of my own again. I am self-employed.I am honest to the core, but I promise to always be considerate and not hurt your feelings. I live by a strong set of morals and looking for the same or pretty close to the same in a person. I won't like it if you are cheating others in any kind of way, it always has a way of showing me whats really going on. With that said, I am not here to fix your ways, I am looking for someone similar to me & unique in his own way.My daughter is 17, my son is 20. Only my daughter lives with me. I enjoy biking/long walks/sun bathing/flowers-gardening etc. I can enjoy boiled crawfish/crabs/shrimp/tuna pretty much any day :)I am educated, have done many things in life and enjoy diversity. I guess you could say i get bored at jobs so I look to do new things that I can learn. The mundane is just not for me. Again I am diverse, enjoy coffee, cappuchinno, movies, a nice restaurant, the theatre, casino, etc. I try to avoid smokey environments, it makes me sick, so for you that are smokers, pls. understand its not you, its my nose, lol. I try not to hang around smokers as I don't want to change you, I am looking to enjoy your company. So I hope we all find those special people to make our lives as happy as could be.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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