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Fern, 38

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About Me

I'm a bright girl, with a positive out look. I believe life is to be participated in with a rejoicing heart, it is too easy to give into the gray. And I don't wish to miss any of its brilliance :) ummmm, well I have been single for 5 years and have loved every moment of it....but I'm a girl and was fashioned to experience intimacy.... I have a strong sense of integrity and value that in another. Believe in hard work, and that it brings incredible rewards....not looking to b rescued thanks tho, my da equipped me to face most challenges life has....and my kids have a great father....I don't need ur paycheck I take care of myself cuz i can and that satisfies me so much.... But if ur definition of partnership lines up with mine let's talk....um if it makes me rude, I don't mind pls don't message me and think I'm going to wanna hook up for a booty call, cuz well, as much as sex is phenomenal, I hope for something that is authentic and has substance....LOL, I come from a family that is full of lasting and passionate relationships. My da is still crazy hot for my ma, and they have been that way for close to 40yrs!! I hope to bring to any relationship I experience, a compassionate heart, the support I hope for in return; the ability to admit my mistakes and short comings, and a willingness to be accountable and ask for forgiveness....I am a great communicator, but a better listener. I believe that a relationship requires work, and am willing to invest in that given the right opportunity, the right chemistry, and the partner....;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I really hate filling these out, it's so egotistical trying to talk yourself up. Let's start with flaws, I'm horribly impatient, I have an extremely mushy side that I have little control over. I'm clumsy, that's actually kinda entertaining though. An occasional snort slips out when something is really funny or ridiculous to me. I can't hold a tune to save my life, but I'm gonna sing anyway. I can't sit still for very long, it drives me nuts. I'm extremely competitive, at everything and anything. I hate the idea of trying to talk someone into being interested in me, or impress someone. You can't truly put yourself into words, yeah it's a jumping off place I guess, but most won't read this, those that do probably didn't get past the impatient part and if you made it this far, you just might be half crazy *there's the smartass in me acting up*, another flaw. Anyway, that's all for now, thanks for stopping by. :)Updated- you've gotta be able to carry a conversation. Replying with :), K or lol ends a conversation. Communication is so important to me.For the love of all that's holy, please don't tell me you must be half crazy, or completely, I've only heard that forty hundred times. ***

  • Donna

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    A bit about me: I enjoy the simple things in life(friends, family, hanging out, etc.), and at the same time I like to be spontaneous and adventurous. I love the outdoors, camping, hiking, and anything to do with water. I also love hanging out around the house, reading and watching movies. And I'm comfortable hanging out at the bar, playing pool, darts, or shuffleboard.I don't believe in wasting time getting to know someone that doesn't exist, so be honest about who you are. A bit about what I want: I'm looking for someone that makes me laugh and that I like to spend time with. Someone that isn't clingy, but doesn't *** unless he wants something. I'm just looking to date and be friends. If more develops, fine but it needs to be natural not forced or too fast. So, if you're still reading you obviously either find me interesting (in which case you should message me now) or you have way too much time on your hands and you need a life (in which case you should message ANYONE right now and get on with this sh*t) :) Happy fishing! First dates should be a chance to get to know someone, so going somewhere you can have a converstation is important. A dive bar where the music isn't too loud, coffee shop, bookstore, or somewhere outdoors like the park or beach (if the weather permits) are all good places to start.

  • Brandi

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I work. When I am not working I do other things. I would discuss them with you, if we can figure out neither of us are complete creeps. I know I am not, but sometimes a girl has to be careful about you, especially the way this site has gone..I have traveled a lot and want to do it more, I am compassionate and strong. I have a great old dog who is my best friend. I have taught a Natural Building course and I am good with tools. I am outside of the norm I am told. I like to push myself and be motivated by a partner. Would be nice to have a partner in crime.Things I require:- Like yourself and be kind- understand that we are all different and that's ok. No need to judge.- don't carry a huge amount of baggage. If you think that I am going to be anything like that woman that did you wrong, your missing out on someone pretty great. I am sure that goes for a lot of women on here. Just use common sense...- I laugh a lot. So must you. Hijack a city bus. Take everyone on it hostage, forcing them to wear costumes and have a dance party. Hopefully they would want to quit their jobs and realize there is more to life then following the ideals of others.

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