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Fern, 38
United States, Massachusetts, Waltham

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I'm a bright girl, with a positive out look. I believe life is to be participated in with a rejoicing heart, it is too easy to give into the gray. And I don't wish to miss any of its brilliance :) ummmm, well I have been single for 5 years and have loved every moment of it....but I'm a girl and was fashioned to experience intimacy.... I have a strong sense of integrity and value that in another. Believe in hard work, and that it brings incredible rewards....not looking to b rescued thanks tho, my da equipped me to face most challenges life has....and my kids have a great father....I don't need ur paycheck I take care of myself cuz i can and that satisfies me so much.... But if ur definition of partnership lines up with mine let's talk....um if it makes me rude, I don't mind pls don't message me and think I'm going to wanna hook up for a booty call, cuz well, as much as sex is phenomenal, I hope for something that is authentic and has substance....LOL, I come from a family that is full of lasting and passionate relationships. My da is still crazy hot for my ma, and they have been that way for close to 40yrs!! I hope to bring to any relationship I experience, a compassionate heart, the support I hope for in return; the ability to admit my mistakes and short comings, and a willingness to be accountable and ask for forgiveness....I am a great communicator, but a better listener. I believe that a relationship requires work, and am willing to invest in that given the right opportunity, the right chemistry, and the partner....;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Christian Crime
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