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Shawn, 37
United States, North Carolina, Monroe

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Mar 2026 10:11:04

About Me

Ok I'm just going to put it out there straight. I'm on this site because I can't for the life of me find a MAN that wants a real commitment, a MAN that isn't afraid to take that extra step for that commitment. I'm sick of dealing with BOYS who want to play games and waste my time. I am a great woman who is looking for a REAL commitment. I have a college degree, I am independent, I can pay my bills, I live in a house and raise my 2 teenage daughters by myself. I work 4 nights/week each being 12 hour shifts as a registered nurse. Starting in January I'm going back to online school for my bachelors. Honestly I'm having a hard time understanding why I can't find that commitment. I do have standards that I am not willing to budge on. Let me tell you my standards so there is no confusion before you contact me.1) MUST be a MAN2) Must have a job that pays more than $12.00/hour3) Must some what be saving for your future (ex.retirement***Must be single with no baby mama drama5) I really would prefer if you didn't smoke as a habit6) You can't be an alcoholic on weekdays or weekend. Social drinker is fine.7) You don't have to have a perfect body by any stretch but I would prefer if you at least made some what of an effort8) YOU MUST HAVE NO DOUBT IN YOUR MIND THAT YOU WANT A COMMITMENT AND A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP!!!!! I CAN'T STRESS THAT ENOUGH!!!9) Last but not least a gentleman.***Good personality and sense of humor. ***Being a good kisser is definitely a huge benefit. ***Must be able to carry on a conversation. Sorry I'm not trying to sound like a B***** but I'm sick of starting over. I sick of telling my story. I'm ready for that great relationship. If I haven't scared you off and you can meet my standards feel free to message me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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