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Lidia, 37

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About Me

Hi everyone***Been on here a few times, but never left due to falling in love. I am unique because I am true to myself and people around me. I work a lot of hours, and am raising my two beautiful children. I am not on here for any games, as I am sure a few people have said that. But Games are good--I always win. lol oh did I mention I have a sarcastic sense of humor, don't take me personally. Laugh and live is my motto. I enjoy fishing, camping, long walks, long drives to know where, chilling at home, cooking, eating, and most of all making people smile. I enjoy being social. I like all kinds of music except the screaming rap stuff. Gives me a headache, but maybe because I am getting older. lol. I enjoy dancing, wine tasting etc. I am learning myself again now that the children are getting older. I like to be by myself at times, and looking for someone that understands that. In my time of divorce and dating, I have also learned that men need their time too. place spontaneous and fun.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lou

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Im looking for someone who is honest, likes to have fun, has there own interest & understands i do.. im looking for someone who can respect i work very hard to play harder! I like to go to the beach , river, I like camping , fishing, I love anything new ill try it! Dinner ... Good Conversation.. Good Wine .. Good Fun Company!

  • Martina

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    You will never know the person that I was. That time has long since passed. Right now you will only know me in as much as I am willing to show you. This day will become yesterday, but tomorrow is still to come. My future is not set in stone. No ones is. However, there must be someone in this big, wide world who will fit into my yet to be. I am not chasing love, simply previewing what could be. The world is full of options and opportunities. I am the same, yet so very different. I am no one, yet someone. People have changed my life and I have had the opportunity to change the lives of others, if only for a moment. I am the calm and the storm. I am uniquely plain. I am a shell. I am many things. Now the question is only what will break the shell to see what is at the core. I have the ability to love like everyone else, yet my love is passionate and unending. I am so very average yet so very extraordinary. Okay, hopefully you make it this far and know how to read. I can't use crayons to draw pictures on here, but some of you 'men' need that option! Haha!DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF:You are younger than 34 or older than 44!Your pictures are more than six months old! What the hell are you worried about? Posting old a$$ pics is dishonest!You are going to go from zero to crazy in less than five minutes! I don't deal with crazy very well! You have convinced yourself that you are such a great looking guy that you have no idea why no one will date you! Breaking it down: Conceited people are never as good looking as they think! No matter how good looking you tell yourself you are, I don't want you to tell me repeatedly on a 'date' when I'm looking at you and thinking ' Are you serious right now?!? You are pretty average and maybe a bit less! You are superficial or live your life in a manner that leads you to believe you are better than anyone and everyone! In the end, we all become worm food!You are seperated. You are still married!! I avoid married men like they have the plague!Your actions don't match your words. Don't try to tell me what you think I want/need to hear and then show me the opposite.You think that all women are the same. Some of us are quite different.You are shady! Get some sun and try the game on someone else! I'm smarter than you think!You have an insane ex-wife or baby mama!! You wear your sunglasses/eye-pro inside to take a picture!! That's just dumb!Your profile photos are you shirtless and/or flexing! I'm glad you have your guns and abs! Hopefully they aren't your best quality/feature!!You want someone who drinks the Kool-Aid and does the church thing. I am not religious. I try to live my life in a manner that is right, but I don't do church. Also, don't use your religion as a crutch or an enabler! If you continually do what you know is wrong in the eyes of your God, then do the church thing to feel better about it, you are using it to make yourself feel better, not to be better! You don't like southern food!!You don't like sushi!! Ok, that can be made an exception in the right situation! :)You have no sense of humor!You want a docile female who has no voice or independence!You are needy and require a lot of attention!You are confused about what you really want with a partner!You only want a bed buddy!!!!!! I say again; DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ONLY NEED SOMEONE TO SLEEP WITH!!!!!!!! I'm not here to let you get your D!*% wet!!You expect me to know or learn any other language besides English! You are just plain bored!Ok, that covers some of you!Now, here is who I am and what I am looking for:I'm a woman with a sense of humor. I'm southern to the core. I know exactly what I want and will waste no time on ***'m not a super model, but I clean up pretty good. I'm not a size 2, but I am not obese. I am not going to send you inappropriate pictures because I have self respect! I'm not going to lie, cheat or expect you to take care of me. I'm carrying my own without a man! I am a romantic, but find that most men don't really understand that word. I have qualities that I think are quite rare these days, but I also have some that others don't approve of.. I smoke, I drink occasionally when the mood hits and I curse. Patience is not my strongest virtue, of course I'm not sure I would ever use the word virtuous to describe anything about myself. I am not a genius, but i consider myself to be intelligent. I enjoy movies at home, my Xbox (yes, I am a gamer), tons of music, cooking, camping, fishing and a lot of other things that will come to light if we get into a conversation. I am hoping to find someone whose flaws mesh perfectly with mine and whose qualities and beliefs compliment my own. There is so much to learn about others and so much to share about myself. I am not superficial. Well, not totally! I prefer a clean shaven face. I prefer someone my height or taller. I prefer someone who is at least average build. I can not date someone who is extremely large. I have dated people of varying heights and builds and with and without facial hair. These are merely preferences!! So don't get offended and message me to complain! If you made it this far and want to get the inside scoop into who I really am, you know what to do. Otherwise, good luck. Coffee? I'll even pay for my own!

  • Shawn

    Online

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ok I'm just going to put it out there straight. I'm on this site because I can't for the life of me find a MAN that wants a real commitment, a MAN that isn't afraid to take that extra step for that commitment. I'm sick of dealing with BOYS who want to play games and waste my time. I am a great woman who is looking for a REAL commitment. I have a college degree, I am independent, I can pay my bills, I live in a house and raise my 2 teenage daughters by myself. I work 4 nights/week each being 12 hour shifts as a registered nurse. Starting in January I'm going back to online school for my bachelors. Honestly I'm having a hard time understanding why I can't find that commitment. I do have standards that I am not willing to budge on. Let me tell you my standards so there is no confusion before you contact me.1) MUST be a MAN2) Must have a job that pays more than $12.00/hour3) Must some what be saving for your future (ex.retirement***Must be single with no baby mama drama5) I really would prefer if you didn't smoke as a habit6) You can't be an alcoholic on weekdays or weekend. Social drinker is fine.7) You don't have to have a perfect body by any stretch but I would prefer if you at least made some what of an effort8) YOU MUST HAVE NO DOUBT IN YOUR MIND THAT YOU WANT A COMMITMENT AND A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP!!!!! I CAN'T STRESS THAT ENOUGH!!!9) Last but not least a gentleman.***Good personality and sense of humor. ***Being a good kisser is definitely a huge benefit. ***Must be able to carry on a conversation. Sorry I'm not trying to sound like a B***** but I'm sick of starting over. I sick of telling my story. I'm ready for that great relationship. If I haven't scared you off and you can meet my standards feel free to message me.

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