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United States, Illinois, Skokie

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About Me

So here is the part where I sell you on how amazing I am and what I am looking for etc... I'm not a big fan of being the same as everyone else so let's go a different route. Let's be honest.. you aren't going to get a real feel for who I am in a few sentences on here. We all say the same things..I like to laugh.. Who doesn't? Are there women on here saying please don't make me laugh I prefer to be angry or sob uncontrollably for no reason? I think not. I am fun to be around... ahh man I was looking for a debbie downer... etc etc So *** tell you all the things that kinda suck about me... I am stubborn. I have been called eccentric.. I think I'm just creative and artsy. I have a mild case of OCD... its not like I have to slap you 8 times before I can walk through a doorway.. more like I hate when my hands are sticky.. lol I have a little ADHD... expect me to interrupt you at times.. I hate laundry.. well not so much the washing, folding, sorting.. I just hate putting it away. Bizarre?? Yeah maybe but I hate it just the same. I love snow. Yeah don't make that face.. it's actually really pretty and I love the way time seems to slow down after a big snowfall. I have three kids.. they aren't really the sucky part ( actually I really kind of like them), but my availability is.. its means that if you are dating me, I can't always be free..but it doesn't mean I am not willing to make time for you.. Let's face it.. if I end up in a relationship eventually you will have to meet them.. Hmmm what else?? I am sarcastic.. and remarkably witty at times... you should probably accept the fact that I will occasionally rib you about.. well anything that's amusing to me really. I love to cook.... I like to actually cook, not heat stuff up. I make everything from scratch.. so it might take longer but it will be amazing I promise. And finally I am not a fan of PDA... I will hold your hand. I will kiss you. I will let you wrap your arms around me...I am actually quite affectionate... but I don't want to make out with you at a restaurant.. We can make out later.. when we don't have to stop or risk a public lewdness citation. Next part. Well for the most part I think we are all looking for the same thing. We want someone to accept us for who we are and get us. Basically I feel like you can't expect more than what you are willing to put into the relationship. I can accept the good and bad, I can make you a priority in my life, I can try my best to make you smile everyday.. I'm just looking for someone willing to do the same. p.s here are the answers to my most frequently asked questions.. :) 1. yes i am a real redhead. 2. no i will not send you a "pic of my girls".. 3. yes I have three kids.. no I do not plan on giving them away.. I am a package deal.4. A few extra pounds means I am curvy.. and I do not have a flat stomach.. I am not thin or skinny. I go to the gym 5 times a week. And I am always improving but I am always going to have big hips, a big butt and big boobs.. if you are looking for a skinny girl.. It will never be me.. think more ***'s pin up... if thats not your cup of tea it's all good. I am up for just about anything. Something casual and low key so we can talk is better than a movie or a club obviously.oh and fyi... if you message me just hi.. or with sexy, hun, baby, etc... im probably not going to respond.. pet peeve what can I say?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock Techno British German Indonesian Comedy Horror Music Western Cricket Motorcycle Racing
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