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Alfreda, 39
United States, Virginia, Petersburg

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I'm a simple person, no drama. Love life, love my job, love my family, love my friends. Prefer to smile and enjoy each day. For sure a glass half full kind of woman. I don't like to be around negative people who complain about everything and suck the fun out of life. We ALL have issues and problems. How a man handles his problems can be the biggest turn on...or off!!!!! I put 100% into everything I do, at home, at my job, with my family and friends, and I expect the same in return. Integrity is very important to me. I will leave it at that. Oh, and no Mitches, lol.Food for thought:1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting, giving the silent treatment, being passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting. She comes to the table as an adult, and communicates clearly what is bothering her.2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards (what she holds herself to) not expectations (what she projects on to others).3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity.4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. A woman plans to be financially independent – she banks on… herself. And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line.5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate. A woman helps other women. She knows that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes the high road of integrity to get what she wants.6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important.7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type of human she wants to be, the example she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She has put thought into her values and what she stands for. A girl has not established her moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available…11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t. As a shy person I hate first dates. Anything can be fun if the company is good though. Just don't make me feel like I am at a job interview, that sucks. If you break out a list of the ***things you want in a woman I will get up and leave for real.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Martial Arts Music Sport Boxing
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im gonna start off by being straight up, if you are looking for a booty call you might as well stop reading my profile. I am Classy not Trashy.. and in this town it seems like not many people have morals or respect much anymore.% Italian so I am very family orientated enjoy cooking and miss the city life. I am a Designer and my work is my passion. I have 2 teenage daughters and they are number one in my life. I hate drama I'm as real as it gets, I love to laugh smile and only stay around positive people. I am into staying in shape so working out is something I enjoy doing. I love to watch sports Especially Basketball. I love to travel, concerts, going to a local bar shooting some pool. I enjoy going to a club once in a while, but a glass of wine a good movie and someone to cuddle with is just as good. I want someone who can be himself not try to be something he's not and Honesty is most important. I have no time for games and if you like to party a lot than we wouldn't hit it off. So again just keep it real! That's up to you!

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  • Bridget from Petersburg | Woman | 40 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First of all let me start off by saying....that if your here only wanting sex, don't waste either of our time, I'm not interested in just a booty call. Humm about me, well let's see.....I'm a fun lovin', easy going, fly by the seat of my pants kinda girl.....I'll try anything once (within reason...lol). I like to have fun. I'm mildly sarcastic, in a fun way, I love to make people laugh and smile. I'm very outgoing, independent and educated............so if your here looking for some uneducated bimbo that you can control we'd probably run out of things to talk about in 5 minutes. I'm very honest & open and try to always give others the respect they deserve. I'm not into games, you can just go ahead and save those for the other immature woman you may meet on here. So if you are... then please move along. Life is too short for all that! I listen to all sorts of music just nothing like Frank Sinatra...lol. I love to travel whether it be a few hr....let's go!! I have 2 kids; a ***yr old son and a 8 yr old daughter. I've raised them so they must be pretty amazing kids. Just my opinion though! ;)Well,... enough "about me" now on to what I am/am not looking for......1.) If your dishonest about anything I will find out and when I do I will kick you to the curb, no questions asked!!!!2.) I'm not here looking for a suga daddy nor am I looking to be a suga mama to anybody. With that being said if you here looking for someone to boost your ego, tell you how hot you are and how sexy I think you half naked pics are then, again, I'm pretty sure we'd run out of thing's to talk about. Confidence, honesty and humor are what makes someone attractive. Oh, and if your looking for someone who's a size 2 when you find her take that girl out and buy her a big fat greasy burger, she obviously needs to eat, she must be starving!!!!3.) If your here and your not over your ex or still having "relations" with her then you should probably get ta hell off here and get to counseling. I'm not looking to be anyone's counselor. Also, if your here looking to find someone to piss your ex off then I'm sure you can go to the bar and find a 20-something to help out with that, heck, I bet you can find 2 or 3.....that would really piss her off and then you can just go ahead and move along!!!!!4.) I'm going to let it be known right up front that I think that not returning texts/calls is by far the rudest and most disrespectful thing EVER!!! So if it takes you a week to respond and then have some lame excuse like your pet snake ate you your phone.....you know where this is going......then move along. BTW snakes are gross!!5.) If you have kids, that is great, I love kids. BUT you must not be a dead beat daddy or be bringing a whole bunch of baby mama drama to the table. I get along very well with my ex's and do not intend to bring anyone into any unforseen baby daddy drama. So, if you sit around plotting your next form of revenge on your ex......then, I'm sure by now you've got the hint, move along!!!!!What I DO want is someone who is honest, truthful and can communicate their feelings. Someone who is ready to get off here, who doesn't want to be life time member, and isn't talking to 15 other chic's (That's nasty by the way). Someone who knows exactly what they want. Someone who is NOT a couch potato, someone I can hang out with and have fun drinking beer watching sports or just spending hrs talking about everything and anything. Someone who enjoys nights out on the town or nice night in cuddling watching movies. I'm looking for someone who likes to do "family" things as well as someone who can appreciate that alone time is key to a healthy relationship as well. Every great relationship begins with a great friendship!!!!! And last, but certainly not least, someone who know's how to be sexual and sensual.If any of what I have said above intrests you in the lease, please don't hesitate to contact me. Anything else you'd like to know, just ask! :) Anything but dinner & a movie!!! Somewhere in public. I don't trust some of the whack jobs that are out there these days...lol. And it must be fun and/or relaxing! :)

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  • Mitzi from Petersburg | Woman | 39 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

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