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Princess Leia, not Rapunzel. I tried this site a few weeks ago and have to admit I was disappointed by the shallow results. I am not here for a random shag. I don't need to advertise for that, were that the kind of woman I am. I'm a single mom of one teenage daughter. Her dad passed away a few years ago and I have had one boyfriend since. I have a degree in Anthropology, though I have been an ER veterinary technician for much of my life. So you could say I love people and animals, not necessarily in that order. ;-) I love music, rocks, bones, wood, travel, water... I love making or refinishing furniture and am working on learning upholstery. I sew quite a bit. I enjoy keeping a tidy, comfortable home where people can relax and are well-fed. I am tired of being single, for sure, but mostly, I'm bored out of my skull! I'm self-sufficient. I don't need anyone to take care of my daughter or me. I just want adult conversation and someone to do things with. The caveat is that I don't believe in sex outside of a relationship. So if you think you're going to drop in, with the moon in one hand, stars in the other, and I'm going to cave, forget it. I've been single for almost 4 years. I know what I want. I'm not going to manipulate anybody and I don't want to be manipulated. I just want to have fun, and if it turns into something more, great. While my IQ and education on paper look important, I would much rather be a mother, or working on furniture or taking care of animals. I find a man who can do things that I can't, who can fix things with his hands, who can remain calm in rough waters, who knows what family means and how to take care of one... A man who is a little old fashioned, with integrity, honor and respect, is a man worth his weight in gold. If that man has a relationship with God, I am over the moon. I attend church regularly. I would like to see one of my entrepreneurial projects (or more) take off. Farming and fishing for survival seems like a really great idea right now.; a dream I gave up to be a mother. Currently, I settle for antiquing, but, you know. You've seen the movies.Music: in many languages, classic rock, classic country (love Merle! as did Bob Marley, just so we're clear... Musica nortena, mariachi, cumbias, rock en espanol..... I love martial arts films, and cowboys. I also have a number of tattoos from my younger days. I'm not big on sports, or sitting still watching balls go back and forth for any amount of time, but besides that, I'm up for about anything... Or even a car. I would really just like to find someone to hang out with. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I wish you well in all your endeavors. Be excellent!Ademas, hablo espanol, asi es que si no hablas ingles, o quieres prefieres leer la novela en espanol, mandame mensaje y se lo traduzco. No hay problema! ;-) Coffee is always good. Somewhere easy to talk to each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Dena

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im very easy going. i have never met anyone i couldnt talk to. people person i guess lol i have a big heart and luv doing for others.?my son is 20 and my daughter is 12. They both make my heart smile I Luv them both more than life. Well this is me and I want to be swept off my feet, a smile I can't rid of,and I want to laugh alot just have fun and conversation ?? I'm not a dinner and movie kind of person. I'm not really picky. As long as there is good conversation, lots of fun and laughter. But I'm up for anything from mudding to a moon lit dinner. I'm not hard to plz as long as there is respect and compassion and honesty. Even fishing wld be great lol. Just make me laugh and it doesn't where we go. ??

  • Lula

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Hope your not a douche bagApparently most of y'all can not read or you are in denial. Please do not say you are not a douche bag if you are. That is lying. If you are not sure if you are a douche bag, then ask a couple of your douche bag friend's. As they say, "takes one to know one". Just because your a legend in your own mind, does not make you a legend.If your a tattoo artist, MOVE ALONG. They say "size matters", but not when it comes to egos.If your not a chubby chaser, MOVE ALONG. If you are, I do not run fast.If your a musician, I am not a groupie.If your a long shoreman, how about this...take a long walk of a short pier.If you are looking to get laid, MOVE ALONG. I am celibate.NO, I do not have a job. If that is a deal breaker, I understand. I am not interested in someone with no job either.My pictures are vague purposely. What you can see is that I have all my teeth and do not have bad acne. I have a blonde afro and like my trash white. If you want to see more, you will need to make yourself available. I am not a text fiend.I am a diamond in the rough but a good investment. I have been working on my issues so you will not have to cancel your subscription.Fish on. Hope you have a good line. And do not catch crabs!

  • Alfreda

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a simple person, no drama. Love life, love my job, love my family, love my friends. Prefer to smile and enjoy each day. For sure a glass half full kind of woman. I don't like to be around negative people who complain about everything and suck the fun out of life. We ALL have issues and problems. How a man handles his problems can be the biggest turn on...or off!!!!! I put 100% into everything I do, at home, at my job, with my family and friends, and I expect the same in return. Integrity is very important to me. I will leave it at that. Oh, and no Mitches, lol.Food for thought:1. A girl throws tantrums. When displeased, upset or angry, she reacts just as she did as a child when she didn’t get her way with her parents. This often consists of screaming, pouting, giving the silent treatment, being passive aggressive and/or punishing. A woman still feels the emotions of being upset/displeased, but has cultivated the skill of responding versus reacting. She comes to the table as an adult, and communicates clearly what is bothering her.2. A girl perceives herself as a princess and believes people should treat her like so. She is entitled and feels that she is owed and therefore expects more than she appreciates. A woman, has standards (what she holds herself to) not expectations (what she projects on to others).3. A girl uses her physical beauty as her currency and basis of value. A girl may be so used to feeling validated through her looks and sexuality, that she uses this as her primary tool to get what she wants in life. A woman, knows her worth is beyond her physicality. A woman bases her value on her intelligence, her strength, her integrity, her values, her contributions, her humanity.4. A girl banks on a man to be her financial strategy. A woman plans to be financially independent – she banks on… herself. And if she so happens to enter a relationship dynamic where it makes sense for her partner to be the primary breadwinner, it’s considered a bonus, not the expected life line.5. A girl sees the world from a place of lack and scarcity. She competes and will even tear down another in order to secure resources or a mate. A woman helps other women. She knows that there’s plenty enough to go around and takes the high road of integrity to get what she wants.6. A girl cannot be bothered with anything domestic and is proud of the fact that she cannot cook or clean. A woman understands that being domestic is not a duty, but understands that it is one way of taking care of herself and others. She also understands that in the event she wants to create a family, having a person in the household who can contribute domestically is important.7. “A girl wants attention, a woman wants respect. A girl wants to be adored by many. A woman wants to be adored by one.” -anonymous8. A girl does not respect her body. She has not yet understood that her body and heart are sacred, and that it’s important to be mindful of how she treats it and who she shares it with. “A girl cherishes handbags, diamonds and her shoe collection as her prize possessions. A woman cherishes her health, her sense of self, and her talents as her greatest assets.” – N. Mah9. A woman takes the time to reflect on the type of human she wants to be, the example she wants to leave and the vision for her life. She has put thought into her values and what she stands for. A girl has not established her moral compass or values and consequently, is often inconsistent. “After spending time with a girl, you feel exhausted because she takes more than she gives. After spending time with a woman, you feel invigorated, because she empowers you with possibility, and a passion for life.” – N. Mah10. A girl has a checklist that prioritizes superficial qualities above anything else. Here is an example of how this checklist may look: Hot, popular, wears skinny jeans, over 6 feet tall, rich.. This is the checklist of what a woman may look for: High integrity, intelligent, kind, good communicator, emotionally available…11. A girl plays games. A woman doesn’t. As a shy person I hate first dates. Anything can be fun if the company is good though. Just don't make me feel like I am at a job interview, that sucks. If you break out a list of the ***things you want in a woman I will get up and leave for real.

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