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Shelby, 39

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About Me

Women are like apples the best ones are at the top of the trees. The Men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. ***, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think there is something wrong with them, when, in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree... I've been blessed with a good life, but my search for someone to share it with has lasted far too long! I enjoy doing so many things, but everything is better when you do them with someone you like. I live in southern IN, in the country, this is where I will most likely stay due to my career & the school systems. I'm not looking to be taken care of, I've done a fine job on my own...I just want someone on the same page to share life with. If you are more than an hour away, it's probably not going to work... I believe on a first date it should be somewhere quite enough to talk. Maybe dinner & and a walk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Norma

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a wonderful contradiction. I am shy, yet confident. At times I am quiet and at times I am boisterous! I trust many, only to get hurt. I am gracious and giving... People take, take, and take, but never give. I am sometimes left feeling robbed of all I have. My heart consists of an insatiable hunger for an impossible dream, enough is never enough. I seem to have bigger dreams than most. I will rise and fall till I gain my success. I contain an enormous amount of passion..waiting to be unleashed. I will gain success and I will live to my fullest & highest potential. Life for me is all about learning lessons, usually the hard way. My life course is more a winding road than a straight journey. Ive suffered; Ive lost; now I realize what it all means. I realize the true value of life. Fate is my mother, destiny is my father... I love and cherish them both. I am not what I appear to be. My life is not what it seems. I am in touch with both my bright and my dark side. I am quite charming if I want to be. I promise honesty. I can be so honest it can be controversial. I hate to be criticized. I would love to know everything, though im not even close...and I am my worst enemy, most of the time. My approach in life is do or die. Life is too short to live in fear of every "what if...". Anywhere we can have a nice conversation without having to scream to hear each other, we'll save that for the second date!! LOL

  • Gladys

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Ok, meetville didn't save any of my changes so I'm starting this profile all over again. I'm currently single. Had some interesting dating adventures. (meaning I have actually started writing a book some were so outrageously bad-behave or you'll be in tehre too) Looking to meet fun people, non-smokers, new friends & hopefully someone special. I'm NOT looking for a hook-up, a FWB, casual sex or someone already involved. Sex is easy to find, someone worth while, not so easy. Please don't contact me if you're just looking for a fling because I have no desire to waste either of our time. Also, if you're a douchebag (& you know if you truly are), please don't bother...life's too short to play the stupid games. THIS is NOT an invitation to contact me JUST to be a douchebag. I shouldn't have to write this but when 10 out of 11 responses are, then I feel it has to be verbalized.I'm easy-going (I know it may not seem like it from the above disclaimer-but I really am a nice girl, just not a door mat), quick witted, straight-forward, honest & want the same in return. I don't do any drugs, including ***since I'm allergic I prefer you not do it either. I'm not a hater, just not something I want in my life. I have an occasional drink, but not one of those "drunk girls that did something wild & crazy on our 1st date". You must have a sense of humor or you won't last around me. I'm fluent in sarcasm & you gotta keep up. Smart guys go to the front of the line. I'm NOT like the other girls. If you want a pretty face that doesn't have an opinion-move on. I have a brain & use it. I'm not shallow, although looks matter, I really believe it's the person inside. If all you want is to see more pics-move on. I'm looking to actually meet face to face, not have a strictly online relationship. I'm not part of a catalog-you can't see me from every angle to decide if I'm worth owning. A smile & a good heart go a long way with me. There is still 1 woman out there that can appreciate a great guy.I have seen a LOT of profiles saying how the girl lost control & was the opposite of fun-that's not me at all. I'm fun, just not crazy. All women are a little crazy, but it's the level of crazy that counts. I'm the spontaneous kind of crazy. I'm down for an impromptu road trip or something unplanned vs boiling the bunny kinda crazy. I like tons of things-the zoo, beach, jet skis, motorcycle rides, hiking, long walks, movies, concerts, etc etc. Just want to do SOMETHING. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. So if you aren't scared away by truth & honesty-apply within. Open to most things...what are your thoughts? I like a "take charge" kinda guy. Not a**hole, but someone with some backbone. Wishy-washy need not apply-you will be eaten alive ;)

  • Anita

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Let's see. I am 38 years old, my favorite color is...blah blah blah! Just kidding. Not gonna bore you with a drawn out stale profile. You wont find me saying the same ole crap like the following: i like the outdoors, i want a man who can make me laugh, take long walks on the beach. I feel that that I a unique and genuine women. Much too difficult to really explain who I am on paper. i believe actions speaks louder than words. But since I have to write something this is me in a nutshell. I am passionate about fitness and staying active. I spend a lot of time working out and love the outdoors. Yes, lace up my gym shoes quite a bit but keep my nails and toes done all the time. No tomboy here. Love to shop of course! I am currently learning to be more spiritual and a better person. I enjoy spending time with my sister, son, and friends. On weekends I might see a movie, a night out on the town, or spend a nice quiet evening at home. I love to cook and I am good at it too! You don't find too many females these days that know how to! Play it by ear.

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