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Bettye, 40

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About Me

I am looking for a best friend that I am physically, emotionally and intellectually attracted to. I have a son who is 8 and means the world to me, so genuinely loving children is very important. If you are comfortable with being serious just as much as you are with finding the humor in life we might be a good match, because life can be quite serious. Someone who can truly appreciate the fun and funny moments as they are always there weaving their way through even the most challenging ones would be refreshing. My intent is to find a partner with whom there is a mutual desire to share kindness, fun, respect, laughter, adventure, honesty, engaging conversation, meaningful moments and more laughter : ) I am looking for the person who is just as excited about me as I am about him not just at the beginning but for the long run. Being active, eating well and allowing learning to be a life long process are all important to me. If my profile is appealing, I would love to hear from you. Find a place that we would both be comfortable beginning to get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Violet

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I won't tell you just what you want to hear & I need you to listen to what I have to say... I am a 40 year old woman with more to offer than any man I have ever known deserves or could handle... I could ramble about many things, but we both know that is the last thing a man wants to listen to... I have been through the fires of hell and don't even smell like smoke (few will understand my point) but, let me get to it...I am creative by nature, art is in my blood, I love music of ALL kinds. I went to college for marketing & graphic arts, in which I did for 20+years.... then in a twist of fate or divine destiny... I am now a registered medical assistant working with cancer patients after losing my mom to brain cancer a year+ ago...life has turned a ***and I am truly in a new beginning in many ways. Consistency tells a lot about character... I am funny and outgoing but, deep... I love to cook, it is therapy for me.. I LOVE IT... I am not interested in booty calls, being your drinking buddy or waiting for you to text me. My faith and my God is why I am still here, I am a free spirit, a writer, a romantic by heart and I tend to say too much.... so for now, I will leave it at that and build on a good thing as we go along.... by the encouragement of a friend I am here again and being completely open and honest to possibility...... I am not interested in passing your time or you wasting mine. I think it is best to stick to locals, I don't think I have it in me for another long distance anything. SOOOOOO Start diggin'.... OK, so I guess I will add some thoughts... because if you have come this far, I will assume you wanna know more. I am the whole package, come on now, seriously... if we don't think that about ourselves who will!? I have been on here a few times before and SWORE I wouldn't be back. I cannot be described in one word. There is nothing average about me.... and who doesn't have a few extra pounds or more to lose if honest, unless you are TRULY athletic, which most who say they are on here, are NOT (I know I have met them). I am a beautiful women with a lot to offer and am still a work in progress... I describe myself physically as "curvalicious" and have never had a man complain about my figure. I am NOT a Barbie doll and you will prolly never see me in a dress and heels unless someone has died, and I will prolly still be in pants.I prefer to crank up some good tunes, put on my comfies, open a bottle of wine or make some drinks and cook you the best meal you have ever had vs. going out to eat. I am very laid back compared to most women I know. I am open and honest, loving and sincere. There truly is nothing fake about me. If you ask people who know me what I am like, they would describe me as faithful, funny, sarcastic, outgoing, inviting, trustworthy, kind, reliable, shocking, passionate, sexy and I have a giving heart. I don't care if it sounds too good to be true, it is the truth.... I don't have to try and sell myself... I am just being open.... More to come...I have learned the hard way that time is precious, I do not give it to just anyone because it is a gift and you cannot get it back. I am not a dater, much less a serial dater. I will not talk to nor go out with a dozen guys at once. Not being a dater has made being on a dating sight difficult, lol. BUT, I work full time and have my daughter half the time and I don't get out much anymore. There is nothing about the bar scene I miss, except live music. ... I want more than shallow, surface relationship, I need substance. I need physical attraction just like anyone, I am not disregarding it.... it is vital. BUT, I want what I have never had. My longest relationship was 18 years and it did not work, that is almost half my life... I will not give away my heart so easily now, but when I do... that man will be blessed.

  • Dixie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Ok gentlemen here it is a bit about me: I am an only child devoted to family and friends. I have a wonderful career that I love. It's challenging but rewarding at the same time. I own my house (well I pay the bank). I do my own yard work, use some tools, pay the wonderful mechanic to work on my car and have recently decided it's better to pay the plumber as well. Now that being said I can take care of most small things around my house. I do love to cook and no one walks away hungry from my kitchen. I take treats into work to spoil my coworkers and love to adjust recipes. I do love music most types except rap and any hip hop or what ever its called that keeps refering to woman in a derogatory manner. I was born in the wrong decade as most of favorite songs came out before or just after I was born. I will admit this now I am a huge sci-fi fan. No dressing up unless its Halloween but I will correct you on the differences between star wars and star trek. Ok just kidding I would not really do that. Never been into the outdoors stuff completely. It's not the best to be out there by your self. I love to go huckleberry picking so I guess that is outdoors. I can learn safely as I have healthy self preservation reflex. I do love to travel; Not many places yet but had to have a good job first that is what vacation days are for. I am not perfect nor am I barbie and I don't expect Ken or perfection I am looking for someone I can respect and will respect me as well. Thanks for reading this and hope to hear from you soon. I think meeting to have coffee or drinks maybe some activity such as pool. It should be something where it feels less like the "job interview" people mention on here and be just two people out having fun and getting to know each other in the process.

  • Maryann

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am looking for someone who enjoys playing pool,sports and the great outdoors. I am NOT your typical woman, I consider myself a catch. I have been through some tough times, which have made me the incredibly strong woman that I am today. I love to have fun, laugh, make people laugh. My laugh is contagious. I have a great smile, so I like to smile often. I am a very strong minded, faithful, happy, compassionate woman with a huge heart. When I love it is ***percent. I always give everything my all. I am looking for someone who has the same qualities, family orientated. And has some other qualities that will help me grow as a person. If I sound like someone you would be interested in.. message me. NO GAMES!!! And I should throw in that I do have past..don't we all? Some more serious than others. If you msg me..we get along, I promise to always be honest bout what i've done, what i've been through and you get to know this person, The one who has grown from past mistakes.This part ..describning yourself is always so cliche..So if you wanna know more about me..ASK.. Im very honest and up front. I am really down for anything. Nothing fancy,I like to be casual most of the time. If we both dress up,neither of us would be comfortable..LOL!! Get to know each other..blah,blah.. Just suprise me..okay? !

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