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Esther, 26
United States, Pennsylvania, State College

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About Me

I work as a Business Analyst for a large insurance company. I play indoor and outdoor soccer, sometimes on multiple teams at a time. My schedule can get pretty hectic at times, but I still find time to go out with friends, spend time with family or even just relax at home. I am pretty close with my family. I have a 3 year old niece and a 1 year old niece who are amazing and mean the world to me. I have lots of aunts, uncles and cousins, most of whom live in the city so family gatherings are always fun. I have a close group of friends who are always there for each other and I am lucky to have them. I enjoy country music, but can listen to almost anything. I don't mind going out to the bar once in a while with the girls, but I don't go all that often anymore. I would much rather go to a social or a pub. I enjoy spending time outside (when it's not 40 below), going to the cabin, going to concerts, shooting pool, catching movies, going to sporting events or even catching some comedy or dinner/theatre shows. I'm pretty easy going, but can be stubborn at times. I'm honest, probably to a fault and will tell it like it is whether someone wants to hear it or not. I will always put others first, but that doesn't make me a pushover and I will always challenge something if I feel strongly enough about it. I deal with things head on and generally right away, no sense in letting something snowball if it doesn't have to. I wear my heart on my sleeve and my emotions are easily read, which also makes me a horrible liar :PIn a relationship, I am thoughtful and affectionate. I pay attention to detail and notice the little things. I pride myself in being able to compromise on things when possible and know that sometimes relationships take work. I like to include the person I am with in things I am passionate about as much as I want to be included in things in my partners life and learn about what he enjoys. I am not a shallow person, however there needs to be both a physical and emotional attraction with someone. When it comes to looks, I'm not generally attracted to guys with a lot of facial piercings. Basically looking for the "clean cut" type. But who knows, someone may surprise me. Other than that, as cliche as it sounds, personality really does matter. I'm attracted to confidence, but not arrogance. I like someone who can challenge me and keep me on my toes. Someone who is funny, flirtatious, passionate and outgoing. I am looking for someone who genuinely wants to get to know me and knows how to respect and treat women. Someone who is honest and loyal and can basically bring just as much as I bring to a relationship. I'm looking for someone who has goals and has either accomplished some of those goals or is working towards them. Common interests always help as well.If you made it through all of that and think we would be compatible, send me a message. :) I generally suggest coffee and a walk or something similar when meeting someone for the first time. Something in a relaxed atmosphere where you can get to know one another and see if there's a connection. Im also not opposed to drinks on a patio during the summer or ice cream in the park. I am open to ideas, something different and original would be fun, maybe rock climbing, mini golf or somewhere we can make fools of ourselves :) If you're not worried about embarassing yourself that shows a lot about your personality and how comfortable you can be in any situation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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