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Benita, 31
United States, New York, Bay Shore

Offline, last seen Tue, 17 Mar 2026 09:55:52

About Me

I am a pretty serious girl when I am at school/work, but once the weekend hits, it's time to let loose! I am new to the area and just looking for some coold people to hang out with! I love to do anything exciting and fun to keep myself entertained. A typical Friday night for me looks like: a local bar with a few drinks, a few friends, and a game of pool or darts. I also like to go out to dinner, comedy clubs, have poker night and occasionally go dancing. Sometimes hanging out at home with a movie and a pizza can be good too, especially if the week has been a hard one! I LOVE to travel! Although I would not describe myself as an adventurous girl, I will try almost anything once. I am a fairly shy person when you meet me, but once my bubble is cracked, it's on! I can be completely goofy and silly, maybe a little bit nerdy. I am fairly down to Earth and not too much into material things and tend to look for the same in others. I have a wonderful family and set of friends. They keep me grounded, and I am so lucky to have them in my life. A few tidbits about me:1....can't help it)2. I am not a morning person. I'm a night owl.3. I believe voting is important (many before us have fought too hard for us to neglect this right)4. Politically I am moderately liberal.5. I'm going into the rehab field and an really excited. I don't care what you do for a living but hope you are happy doing it.6. I hate IPAs but pretty much all other beer is delicious. 7. Shrimp remind me of sea bugs so they freak me out! 8. I am an awful speller and am dependent upon spell check... 9. Watching a good football game is one of the most exciting things on Earth!10. So are roller coasters!I joke around a lot and can be sarcastic. It's important to take life seriously but always have fun living it! It's the only one we get! P.S. Sarcastic is great; mean is not. If you hate homeless people and are the type that yells at them when you pass by, we will probably no make very good friends... Remember the Golden Rule from kindergarten??? hmmm... I'm not too picky. Happy hour sounds perfect to me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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