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Yolanda, 31
United States, New York, Bay Shore

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About Me

I try to participate in my life like an adult but I also like to play like a kid. I'm not perfect, but I like things to be organized and reorganized. I own stilettos and hiking boots. I have an IQ of ***but I can’t spell to save my life, always lose at Connect 4 and my handwriting looks like a kindergartners. I'm not a couch potato, but I love a good snuggle. I'm very affectionate and require reciprocation.’em. I love dressing up but my favorite outfit, hands down, is my PJ’s. I’m outgoing but selective with my loyalty. I’m Generous with hugs, flattery and tips but stingy with my string cheese, chocolate and blind trust. I am ambitious Monday through Friday but lazy Saturday and Sunday mornings, the afternoons are scheduled for spontaneity. ** IF the list below are all true statements for you as well, then I would love to hear from you.About me:1. I own a car ... I don't care what kind yours is2. I live alone. (Roommates are OK if you own your home.)3. I have a career I love and make 70k or more a year4. I like to be romantic on a regular basis5. I know that the buttons on my phone don't just text but also make outgoing calls6. I do and will continue to make traveling a priority for the rest of my life7. I have a need for trying new things and going new places8. I am a healthy eater but not a super picky eater, I like to trying new foods and restaurants 9. I have time to see you at least once a week10. I often engage in random acts of silliness and kindness11. I Love to cuddle12. I like to stay active outside, the majority of my activities do not take place under fluorescent lighting.13. I can handle a little sarcasm from time to time. Better to be a smart ass than a dumb ass.14. My ultimate goal from a relationship is marriage and children. I’m not saying tomorrow, but eventually it would be nice. 15. I do NOT smoke. (I'm allergic and asthmatic.) ** IF these were all true statements for you as well then I would love to hear from you.**If not, then that is ok, I'm just not a good match for you. Please don't waste OUR time by *** if we are not a match. Please don't send me angry mail if we are not a match, I'm not everyones cup of tea either and you don't see me freaking out about it. I'm at a place in my life where I know what I want and I'm willing to hold out for it. I’m old school I expect chivalry and courting and I like my man to wear the pants. So if you are waiting for me to initiate communication or plan things then you’ll be waiting awhile. Anything but coffee. I am attracted to the take charge type so as long as you take the time and initiative to plan the date all by yourself I'll love it. I roll with the punches and believe fun is something you bring with you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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