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Lena, 32
United States, New York, Bay Shore

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Hi. I'm into art. I like doing stuff, going places, meeting people. I like reading. People say I'm smart and funny for people I get along with. I'm pretty cool because I'm not about shit. I am looking for something serious and fits in my life. Just want someone that can make me laugh. Just want to meet someone nice. I guess when you get older, you realize what works and what doesn't work for you. It's just better. :) Life is so hard. Who has time for crap? It's good to have a bar. I wish I didn't have to explain what I don't want, but I get a lot of junkmail and women have to explain exactly what they don't like and what they don't want and then how they want to be treated 'cause the guys are pretty lame and clueless and not smart enough to know. If you do, you're one cut above the rest. So that's later. It's a big challenge trying to find a decent guy. You have to think about the future. Could he be that kind of person? A lot if factors come into play what kind of man you bring into your life, but I think it's mainly love of one self to bring along the right person and values. You can have a rich life what you make of it and take of it. I feel like I have a healthy self-esteem. I stay away from people that don't treat me right. Trust is big.I don't like loose guys or guys that want to hook up. They're wimps.They make you a broken person and emotionally dead person. That sh*t makes you crazy.They have issues and they're not mature. I believe in karma and they'll get what's coming to them.Must have a high paying job, a good credit score.Must want to be bf. Must be looking for a relationship.Successful.Has nice car, everything.Have to be able to talk about a wide range of subjects. Protector.Have to have half glass full mentality, a leader.Must treat women like a future girlfriend.It's not bad if he's a good cook either.Anyone seeking casual is used and has the emotional part sucked out of them. Afraid of commitment. I call it stupid casual charm.It's a guy completely *** of his heart and being stupid. It's the ugly part of guys that don't want to be sh*tfor a woman..Valueless. It's like picking junk for a guy. Blah. That's what they are. Like a crakehead.Ha. plus it makes a nice girl into a ****. Never want to be the one that makes a girl mean.Plus they're a penny a dozen.No one wants to date a crappy guy. A lot of men are so dumb these days. They have no idea how traumatizing it can be for a girl. Pregnancy, absorption, stds. Have you watched the absorption videos? And they act like oh, no big deal. They don't think. Totally reckless. You better be ready for that shit.:p it's sad for guys to take women who want to be treated with dignity and respect and love and trash them or throw them under the bus. :p **** that.I want someone that brings out the best in me.A lot of guys have a poor way of expressing real love.No drugs, no smoking. No excessive tattoos.I view myself as a person and expect to be treated like a person. No bs.Little side note: open to networking with any art people or anyone connected to art. Every guy's different, but i like the those that go all out because that is what makes us women feel beautiful. (Don't worry. I've never had a sugar daddy.)We can run away tgether and look at the stars or you can take me shopping. :) Concert would be nice or something.E.-DMC, The Hollies, Ashanti, Scorpions, Miguel, Nelly (old school), Frankie Valli,Mozart. Anything that makes the heart pumping.Surprise is always good. Spoil me. . :DI think a good question is how is someone going to feel after they date you or talk to you? Good? Used? Abused? Messed up? What kind of person are you?Do you have a conscience? Are you a decent individual?Is dating you going to be a good experience for my self-esteem or detrimental in the end? Healthy or destructive?Is he treating me good enough to be his girlfriend or am I wasting my time?Is he someone I can invest myself into with a personality or just a valueless person trying to act cool to get in someone's pants? That's the question of the night.I Never take men seriously unless they want to be on woman's level that women have to think about with men. A woman's heart should be a man's first priority all the time.No guys inviting women to their houses or hotel rooms. That is just offensive and unacceptable. Most likely I would be like what the ****? Or guys asking for massages. I'll just laugh at you and tell you you're stupid. It's a good way to start off on the wrong foot.I will never be treated like that because I refuse to be. If you're positive, you know this.If you go past being charming, I have no reason to date you.Just limited to good dinners and classy times 'cause that's the kind of girl I am. :) Wouldn't have it any other way. I'm old fashioned. You find a guy that's wants to take you to dinner, looking for a relationship- that's the kind of guy you want to be with. They understand how to treat you right.No dream crushers.I don't get the guys that ramble about love and loyalty, but don't want to take a womanto dinner. They want someone with a low self-esteem. You *** they are full of crap. Majority of guys on here are weird. Freaks. Plain and simple. They don't act special.They get pissef if they don't have their way 'cause they don't have what it takes to want to be a bf. Women hate that shit. Or the ones that have conversations like they're in puberty. If that's all they're thinking about, it's nothing to bother with. No woman has to take that. I'm not doing it. No. If you're serious, you're not doing none of shit. You're not talki

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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