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Beverley, 35
United States, Illinois, Chicago Heights

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About Me

My cousin once said to me "I don't know *how* you're still single!" Well, I'm not quite sure either, but part of it is because I'm happy enough on my own and won't "settle", and that I can sometimes come across as a little intimidating (rather than just confident). (Now, just because I'm happy enough on my own doesn't mean that I want to be on my own forever, it just means that I'm going to wait until I meet the right guy rather than rush into something that's "good enough". Make sense? Like someone once said, it's better to be single than to be in a bad relationship. If it's worth it, I'll work for it; if it's not, I won't... Having said that, I should warn you that I tend to not jump into things too quickly. I like to take some time to get to know somebody before making a decision one way or the other. I don't want to miss out on anything, but I also don't want to make a premature commitment...)I think the easiest way to tell you about myself is to just give you my "laundry list" :)Me:- single (never been married***don't have any kids (but definitely want them)- independent- intelligent- love to travel and go camping! (but always love getting back home, too - there's nothing like sleeping in your own bed when you've been away for a while)- realist- optimist (yes, it may seem to contradict the "realist" above, but it doesn't really)- romantic- sarcastic (who me? nah...!)- slightly offbeat sense of humour - sometimes people just don't "get it"- generous- confident- easy going- like (and have) tattoos (I have 4 right now, all pretty small) (I also have my nose pierced)- not a big animal person...- Non-smoker--; Prejudice (and yes, I like the classic "chick flick" too...)You:- similar to me, but with enough differences to make life interesting :***know who you are, and know what you want out of life- enjoy camping and travelling- like going to folk fest (or are happy to humour me and keep me company)- adventurous, spontaneous, easy going- appreciate and enjoy spending time with friends and family- as comfortable getting dressed up and going out as wearing sweats and staying in - want kids (this is a dealbreaker for me, and I'd like them sooner than later, but won't rush it just 'cause)- think family (in general) is importantMy one big deal-breaker (aside from wanting kids) is if you're a smoker. Sorry, but if you smoke, I'm not interested.I think that's it for now...although I do want to say that these aren't "requirements", just "wishes", and by no means a list of specifications that you must meet...lolIf I've "favourited" you, it's because I'm intrigued and want to say hi but I either didn't get a chance right away, or I'm not sure what to say...feel free to say hi first, or wait until I do...either one works. :-)(and fair's fair - you've seen my photo, I'd like to see yours - I pretty much won't reply if you don't have one) Lunch, drinks or coffee would be a good start (on a patio in the summer, of course!). If things go well, then maybe go for a walk, or out for dessert. As long as it's something where we can talk and get to know one another, I'm up for it!Just a word of caution - I'm not one to wait a long time before wanting to meet...chatting online is fun and fine for a bit, but the whole point here is to actually meet people, right? :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    What am I looking for...at this point just someone nice to talk with, go out once in a while maybe a movie, dinner, play, concert, museum. If anything develops from that...then great!FAVORITE THINGS: Chocolate, rain, freshly mowed lawn, salads (blue cheese dressing), coffee brewing, My dog Fritz, gardening, traveling, Thanksgiving dinner cooking, the color lavender, hot pop overs with butter & honey, baklava, a new born baby after a bath, the sound of a child laughing, thunderstorms, A GOOD SMELLING MAN! So far my life has been full and rewarding being the mother of four children. Now that they are all adults I find myself on a new journey … There is so much out there to experience and I hope I will not be doing it alone. I am enjoying many things that I could only do during stolen moments when the demands of single parenting took priority. I love that part of my life, if fact I think I would say that it is my greatest accomplishment so far. But now it is time to move forward. I am taking more time to exercise & trying to eat healthy (“trying” being the key word). This is not an easy thing for me being that I love chocolate and flavored creamers in my coffee. I love to read, scour antique shops and flea markets for Depression glass and other treasures, research my family tree. I am primarily Finnish (love those sauna’ I like traveling although there has been a specific destination lately.. I enjoy gardening and believe it or not I like mowing my lawn. I enjoy going to WATCH sporting events both local and professional. During the winter time I enjoy going ice skating and sledding (the old fashioned kind..with a toboggan). I have never been skiing but would like to try it sometime.’t had the opportunity to do this as often as I would like. I want to learn how to fly fish. I own a set of golf clubs but don't know how to use them. I enjoy taking care of my home and the people that I love. I am a good cook and a person who pays attention to detail, therefore I call myself a master planner. With that said. Have a peaceful and wonderful day!PS: This is just the beginning, there is SO MUCH more to me than I was able to put here in this profile. Sure hope you don't miss out ;) Let's talk and decide together!

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  • Shelley from Chicago Heights | Woman | 35 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    Ok so this is where I talk about myself.... I'm outgoing , funny, Love to have fun and be goofy, enjoy making people laugh, I LOVE MUSIC all types. I work full time I enjoy working I love what I do. I am not sure what I'm looking for on meetville but hopefully nothing I've ever had before. I love to drive with no destination driving with the windows down sun roof open and music loud is what clears my head.....we all have out little strange things we do and this one is mine... We can decide this together or surprise me

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  • Kerry from Chicago Heights | Woman | 31 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hey there, thanks for stopping by and checking out my page! I like it down here. I love the beaches, and though it gets unbearably hot sometimes, I don't miss having to shovel snow. Now that I'm back in PC, I'm within 5 minutes of most of my family, and being so close to them means a lot to me.I've been working for the same company for almost 13 years, and I couldn't work for a better company. I love being surrounded by different people and having the opportunity to make their experience a little bit better. My career means a lot to me, and I've worked hard to get where I am. As for my free time, I'm pretty much up for anything as long as I'm with good company. I figure if you're with the right people, you can make it a fun time no matter what. I like going out, but enjoy staying in and watching a movie or playing a game too. I don't go out to bars or clubs much anymore, and I'm not a big drinker, but I'll go with some friends occasionally, mainly to socialize. I like bowling, and shooting pool. I really enjoy going to Busch Gardens also. I love roller coasters! I like going for bike rides, especially when I have someone else to enjoy it with. I also watch UFC when I can catch the fights. I work out once or twice a week and I enjoy that. I just started to play a little tennis too, and that's been fun. I'm pretty easy to please. I try to avoid drama, and I hate when people play games. There's a million other things I could say, but that takes the fun out of meeting up and getting to know one another! So stop by and say hi :)Sugarland said it best with the lyrics to their song "Settlin'" If you haven't heard it, check it out...it pretty much sums up where I'm at. If you already know it, bonus points for you! I'm up for anything that involves being able to communicate and get to know one another better. Going out for dinner or drinks, hanging out at an amusement park, going bowling, taking a walk on the beach...anything like that. There's always time for quiet nights and movies later, once you get to know someone better.

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