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Harriet, 55
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

Offline, last seen Tue, 17 Feb 2026 14:03:16

About Me

I have just added to my profile, enjoy...........Friendly, kind, I give the benefit of the doubt to everyone. Love to help others, love to sing! Life has thrown a few curves, but I just get up, and move forward.Thankful, blessed, calm! My heart is not hardened, but tender, and I am a little pickier than most!! A little feisty, but not a meanie!I have a great business in my town, and I am blessed to have such good clients and friends and family in my life. I long for the connection of family, and do miss that with a loving mate, but in due season.I have been blessed with the gift of music and singing- and take any opportunity to do so in public venues! Music means a lot to me, and I love theatre, music venues, etc. always have some in the background....I am patient- please kind sirs-; frame- I need a man who is taller than me-bless you though in your journey. I miss wearing some sweet looking heels in my closet!I enjoy riding motorcycles, have had a few, but none right now. I have been camping and have some equipment! I can fish but could u please take the worm out of the fishes' mouth for me?? I know, but I can't stand the noise the fish makes! LolI enjoy a man who still wants to open the door for me.... Do you do that?I want the man I'm with to know I am proud to be with him! I am a girly girl, yes, but can also get out on that bike and ride! Love to dress, and go out to dinner, love holding hands, do men still do that!?Like walking down quaint streets window shopping, not in a hurry..... I am an awesome cook, but need someone to make some grrrrrreat conversation while we share a glass of something....sound fun?I am so much more than a pretty face, and I am willing to guard my heart and not have a man mistake my kindness for weakness! I am not a pushover! It starts with a "hello"..... Somewhere that we are not distracted! I want to look into your eyes and see the man in front of me! Please be willing to open up...come on.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Art Activities Drama Mystery Western
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