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Kayla, 51
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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I am not looking for Mr. Forever. I have no plans to get married again. I don't think I want that, at least not anytime in the near future. But I'm not looking for just a hook-up either. I believe in love and I am sure that someday I 'll love someone again but I am not searching for it. I want to live a real life. I want to just enjoy this moment, whatever it is. I want to be with a man that I want to be with. I want a man that is stronger than me, and I don't mean physically. I want a man that is secure in the person that he is and doesn't try to be what he thinks I want him to be. I don't want games and major drama. I want to trust and be trusted. I don't want to have to guess or try to figure him out. I just want real.I am very independent, outgoing, and fiercely loyal to those that I love. I believe in honesty and monogamy and don't want a man who doesn't feel the same way.I am politically conservative and I love this country. I believe that God is God and the most important things in the world to me are my children and grand babies. I love my dog, Diva. She's my baby girl. I don't need your money. I have a job that I love and would never want to do anything else, even tho what I do may seem strange to some men. I am not into "things". I've had that life. That is not what life is to me. I want to go and do and see.I love the water, camping, fishing, the woods, and mud. I love loud country music. I would rather be outside except when it's cold and rainy...I am very strong-willed and secure with myself. I don't want to have to prove myself to anyone. Nor do I want a man that needs to prove himself to me. I just really want a man that I like and that wants to laugh and have fun. I want to ride back roads and sing along with the radio.I love to play pool and someday I want to be good at it. I love to dance and sit around the fire and walk in the woods. I love garage sales and antique shops. I like to shoot but I really don't want to hunt. I don't want to talk for a month. We'll know very shortly if we want to meet. If we do, then let's do it. If not, then we can just move on, no long drawn out "getting to know you". I don't want to know your whole past before I meet you. That is better saved for later.I don't mean to scare anyone off, but if I have, it's probably better that way. If not, then you are probably someone I would want to know.And just fyi.....I use my phone mostly and don't always log out....most of the time I just close the app....so it may say that I'm online when I'm not...so plz don't think I'm ***'m not. We can meet at the park or the lake and sit on the tailgate of the truck or take a walk and just talk. Or we can get a six pack and ride down the road and listen to music. Or we can go to the lake and sit on the bank and fish. Or anything simple, that is just a jeans and flip-flop kind of date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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