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Eddie, 51
United States, New Jersey, Irvington

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About Me

Let me say first off, that I am on this site as a tool to MEET someone. I don't want to just ***, text and chat. I want to meet face to face, so that I can see, hear, and touch you. So, if you are not willing to meet me in person, please contact someone else. Thank youWell, I may be prejudiced, but I think I am really fun, dynamic, outgoing, extrememly extroverted, full of adventure (you won't believe have the "adventures" that I have gotten myself into), fun, witty (well that could be subjective), kind, compassionate, PASSIONATE, loving, affectionate and willing to accept most challenges. I have a love of life and desire happiness and joy. I am very positive and upbeat. My boss recently told me that I was the most positive person he has ever known in his life. This really blew me away, but I was very humbled and grateful for that statement. Most of my friends say they like to be around me as I am charismatic, and that my personality and savoir de vivre are contagious. My best friend says I have a childlike naivetee that is refreshing, but be sure that I can be a naughty girl when the time is right. So, why am I single??? Well, 1- I chose badly; 2- I am not willing to put up with crap anymore, 3- I have been busy rearing my children as well. However, life is too short, so we should enjoy it while we can. At a recent training session, my co-workers were directed to describe each other with one word. The descriptions that I received were sexy, vivacious, attractive, welcoming, energetic, exuberant, dramatic, spunky, dazzling, sparkling, considerate, flamboyant, sweet, whirlwind. I love to laugh, smile and enjoy life. I am very sensual and affectionate and would love to share those traits with someone. To make a living, I am a Regional IT Manager covering the Northern and Eastern Districts of TX. I have a wonderful job and I am blessed to love what I do. I have two boys 20 and 15 and always seem to have a house full of testosterone!. I have a lake house which I totally enjoy.; going to the gym. I am a cultured soul and appreciate the arts.I have a background in Music performance and love to spend time performing or attending concerts. I am a profesional classical performing artist but I can also be a silly goof with family and friends. I love to laugh and have fun. What do I want in a man? Well, being Tall, Dark and Handsome doesn't hurt. (Hey if you are blonde or red-headed, that is OK too). If you have a charming smile, a sexy laugh and a sense of humor then you are definitely in the running. If you are self-confident, emotionally mature, and financially responsible, then how can I resist?? If you have a temper, you can keep it. I want someone who is easy going, goes with the flow, always has a smile handy and looks at the glass half full. I would prefer an initial meet and greet and if there is chemistry, our second date could be something fun like a nice walk/hike in the park or a bike ride while we talk and get to know each other. Dinner with wine would be a relaxing alternative. I am pretty open to whatever we want to do. Please no smoking!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Dance Chinese Greek Mexican Middle Eastern Portuguese
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