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Tonia, 53

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About Me

I was reading an article on Oprah.com about 10 things never to put in an online profile. Basically what I realized is that I didn't put much of anything! So I decided maybe I could say a little bit more about myself without being offensive or immodest, thus this update:Things I really love include music, movies, and books...then taking time to have enlightening discussions and comparisons. I adore long walks in the Fall, sitting on my back porch watching my 2 cats nap while I enjoy a cup of hot tea, a good glass of wine preferably sipped where there's a breathtaking view, and passionate kisses with someone who knows how. I'm re-learning to play guitar and I love karaoke, but I won't make you sing. I write books, screenplays, and poetry but so far don't make any real money at it. I'm starting a new phase of my life and eager to make new memories in a new place. As far as what I'd like in a partner...someone 'real,' who knows himself and isn't afraid to share his feelings. You're confident, honest, funny, passionate about life, loyal, and a friend. There would be common ground between us, but room to learn about new things and grow. Deal breakers are overly judgmental, fundamentalism, smokers, and narcissists. (And sorry guys, I'm not particularly into men with motorcycles and I really don't like sports at all...I'll never say never, but that would take some convincing!)Friends first is important to me, but getting to know each other is half the fun, right?! Can't wait to meet you! A glass of wine or coffee, lots of stimulating conversation. Easy, friendly, no pressure, hopefully the beginning of developing a friendship with the potential to lead to passion.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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