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Phyllis, 53
United States, Alabama, Decatur

Offline, last seen Tue, 10 Mar 2026 06:38:18

About Me

Live Love Laugh - I'm sure you've seen this phrase, but it's more than just a phrase to me. It's how I try to live life. I am a happy, well rounded individual and as I like to say, I've got a good head on my shoulders. I don't play games. I am looking for that special man to share the good times with...to be my partner, my lover and make me laugh. I read a few men's *** was funny about their remarks about a woman being able to pay her own bills...but I guess it's a real concern ...well, I expect the same of a man. I'm quite capable of taking care of myself - financially and otherwise. I enjoy physical activity, sports and being outdoors. I am comfortable in everything from a t-shirt & jeans to elegant evening wear(and have it all). Chemistry is extremely important, so I do not want to waste time chatting for weeks before we connect. I am too busy living life to be on the computer in my free time, as I use it daily in my work environment. I enjoy travel and quick weekend getaways. I also like to attend comedy clubs and the theatre. Variety is the spice of life and I have too many interests to list all. I don't want to put my life history on an internet website. I will save the details about myself for the few men that I do interact with. Most important - must like dogs! Lastly, I prefer not to date a man with children living at home, or the every other weekend Dads (sorry). Only contact me if you have recent photos posted. PLEASE NOTE: If you don't look like your photos, I will not date you,regardless of how "great" your personality. Thanks I do not consider our first meeting "a date". It is a meeting to see if we want to go on a first date. So for our meeting, I think a Starbucks would be good. I also like to see what a man suggests for the first date, it reveals a little more about who he is.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Drag Racing
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