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Alissa, 51

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Updated 20 Feb ***:I am a single female in excellent shape that is hoping to find her equal. I am looking for someone who has their life in order; but also has no problem letting go and being a "kid" once in a while. I recently started a new career and am beginning to formulate a plan to start my own business in the next few years. Fashion, fine foods and wine, nature (love zoos and botanical gardens), hiking, camping and traveling are all things I LOVE! As far as music is concerned, my taste runs from hip hop and techno to smooth jazz and just about anything in between, except for Polka, gospel and country. And I don't HATE all that either, just not the world's biggest fan.I think what makes me unique is that I have chosen to live my life for me and do what makes me happy rather than striving for someone else's "status quo". I am also the kind of girl who likes to take the road less traveled. I will revisit certain favorite spots; but I really enjoy staying at that new place or trying something different on the menu at that restaurant. Not one for the same old routine.....Just a note: I prefer to message back and forth long enough to know something about you and that there is a genuine interest. I am not a phone person unless I already know you. I would prefer NOT to give out my number to a thousand people in the hopes of finding the right man for me. Sorry if this is a problem.... I prefer our first meeting to be in a public place and very casual. I think that's the best way to get a feel for who you are. We'll see from there :D

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allison

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    Woman. 25 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 22-32

    I would consider myself fun and outgoing. By profession I\'m a teacher. I absolutely love my work. It would be soooo refreshing to meet just a nice, easy-going and smart person. Are you the one?

  • Deanna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I love life, laughter, lazy Sundays and the way it feels when I'm in love. Chemistry is the key that opens the door of desire and discovery. The process of getting to know the one who lights my fire is an exciting journey. So if you like adventure, are communicative, loyal and sane. If you know when to be naughty and when to be nice, can be casual or formal are honest with yourself as well as others, intuitive and bold you'll spark my interest. Do you put effort in your appearance? Are you energetic, passionate and romantic? I like first dates to be a simple meeting to see if there's any attraction and a reason to make a second date.

  • Carrie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Maybe our paths crossed for a reason. Who knows? This is tough carrying on about oneself, but since I am supposed to say things about me...Yikes. You can ask me about a National Title, and being published, if you are so inclined. I am a Mosiac artist for fun, and employed full time as a showroom manager. I like to design greeting cards and work on my tiny, little house. Though it may not appear so, am very down to earth. I have just been graced with great opportunities for accomplishment. I have a blog. I know...I am interested in many things, and love people. I enjoy all food. I do appreciate fine and pure food and have reviewed many restaurants. Some people call me a foodie, but to me that has a lame undertone...lolIf you have read this far- that holds great weight for me. Of course, there should be an attraction, but I am in it for the heart, as that is very important to me. I think men with integrity are few and far between, but I know they are out there. Luckily. Let me add that a man who is respectful of women is very attractive. Confidence goes a long way, as well. I would like to mention that I recognize and appreciate a good sense of humor and a quick wit. I am often told that my sense of humor is intact. People regularly tell me that I am funny, and I would like to beleive that to be true. So, yes, there will be a lot of smiles going on. Evolved humans are so darn interesting, as well as those that can resolve issues and communicate effectively. I prefer order to chaos, but am not fanatical in any way. I am not fond of a downright dirty environment, but I am not bothered by clutter. Sometimes life and fun get in the way of having an orderly household, and I get that. I like the serene feeling that tidy offers, but sometimes we all just do our best. I go with live and let live. I like being home, and I can actually cook and enjoy it. However, I like being out often as well, and enjoy all types of activities; or just a nice conversation can be very engaging.; coupled with an indication of the lives we have led. Meet! It really is inconsequential, as I bring the good times with me. It does not matter where we go, or what we do. What matters, is that we just arrange to meet when we can, and not carry on endlessly over *** it requires an act of Congress to get together for the first time, then it has little success attached to it. If you are just sport fishing, reload the bait and press on. Past me. If you hate your mother, than this may not be a match...all circumstances considered. LDR: I know that can work for some, but really, if you live far away, reality is: I can't relocate for years, due to my 17 year old son, so if you are locked into that place, chances are there is not much of a chance. I am counting on you to call that one. Please be realistic and honest with yourself, and me... sorry, but the LDR has too many variables working against it. Ok, with that out of the way, I hope this finds you smiling. There is one saying in life that I have always kept in the forefront:"One thing you always know, is you never know." Please do not decide what I may or may not like as you just may be wrong, and could be pleasantly surprised, quite to the contrary. I do not let fear dictate my decisions, and laugh and smile daily. My smiles are not in short supply, and neither are the opportunities to do so. This transulates well to all of those around me, and those exposed to the fun and humor seem to like the grittiness of it all. Things are edgy in a good kind of way. It is not for the faint of heart, and neither is the art that I create. I have nothing to hide, and would not be able to do so if I tried. Besides, I am not that person. I can tell you this: I do not measure my life by the breaths that I take, but the moments that have taken my breath away. What lies before us, and what lies behind us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. What was it that you were thinking about asking me? Ask away as long as it is appropriate and respectful. Of course a gentleman knows what I am talking about. Those reloading the bait...not so much...I am just saying...

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