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NataliaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
This feels right.... Scaring some of you, drawing others nearer. Honestly.Authentically.No games.It's been decades and I am just learning all the lingo and etiquette for ***online dating but it doesn't interest me who you know or how expensive your car is... I need to know if you'll be there when I need you. For the stupid things and the sublime things. If you refuse to read this whole thing, then at least google "the Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Dreamer. I want to be real with you on this level. If you can't, good luck but flip to the next profile. You say you want a woman who knows what she wants. I do know what I want. Just wish I were a better writer.My purpose in dating is to discover someone who I can feel comfortable with like in t- Someone who I can stay young-at-heart with and play with be real with and laugh and laugh and cry with. .... Deep breath....Deal breakers first...really it'll save your time and mine. The following deal breakers are not meant to be personal affronts. If you're the right puzzle piece, we'll both know it. :)Deal breakers:smokes, uses drugs, has a drinking problem.I am probably past my prime for another pregnancy(I already have an 8 y.o. daughter who is part of the package but NO ONE meets her until I am rock solid certain I'm in a committed, mutually passionate and dedicated union... how long that takes, I don't know.If you are looking for a child bearer, we're probably at or around expiration date.That's not saying if we're financially stable, I wouldn't consider adopting ...if you were interested in that. It would be worth a conversation.No Sports fanatics- being banished on Sundays or Monday nights for this season or that season... or this week long playoff or that championship.... not desired.I would be willing go to a game with you here or there but I'd rather play than watch.Okay, I had to insert this in between...I do not have a lolipop body, guys. lolI've got curves. I work out, do qigong and going back to yoga after an injury. The Curves? That's called DNA.Hips/thighs/butt still substantial because I'm made that way. Im somewhere between a pear and hourglass...so, I need to be desired. I need to be your body type. I'm not going to become a pretzel to impress.I also expect you to value your body temple as well. Take good care of it so it can last, you know, to get to the life long part. ;)You don't have to be perfect and I don't need you to have Adonis' body but be generally working towards somewhere near your best Self... without being obsessive of course...it's not whether you succeed at perfection (whatever that is for you) but make the effort. I will continue to, too.By this time I've probably posted photos... yes, they're current. I am 43 going on 44...lolLastly on deal breakers...Boundaries between the love and admiration you have for your mom and that which you have for me and us.This is really only for mamones who have mom do their laundry and/or still live with her. I can't/won't compete against your mom. Really, how could I? Be the strong, loving but Independent son.Whew.... Pretty sure... Yep, done with that section.Next, what I need and what I'd love, then what I will give.What I need from my partner:I need an honest man with integrity,strong sense of Self, purpose and patience, someone who's seriously interested in who I am,a financially responsible man who can provide but also allow me to fulfill my calling and not feel threatened. Doesn't mean I'm competing, I just have this thing I have to do before I die...a man who can communicate his needs and his ideas well... I will listen without interrupting,a man who will communicate on a regular basis, even if you need to put a reminder on your calendar...lola sweet and kind man with family values who is willing to share my love for my daughter and create a safe environment for her and any other children between us,an appreciative and affectionate man who can say I love you without hesitation, be vulnerable and unafraid to show kindness and physical affection and can say thank you and you're the best, by literally saying it and by the little extra things you do...fixing or building things, cooking with me, hugs, all sorts of caresses and touching, massages, I even love flowers!...a man willing to hold space when I talk about what's bothering me in any situation and just ask, "and what else happened?" or say, "that stinks", or nod in understanding without needing to fix, unless I ask... :)that's a biggy...a man who strives for longevity by being true to a physically and psychologically healthy lifestyle, which includes taking pride in his appearance and working at being physically attractive to me,a man that will understand that I discipline my daughter...when the time comes, if you have a problem with her (as she is entering puberty and duly unpredictable), bring it to me. I don't claim to be the perfect parent, so we can talk it out and come up with a plan, but I have to be the one to go to her.I will do the same for your offspring (if you have any), I will honor you.Here's what I'd love...a man full of passion, sensuality, sexual openness and adventure, I would love to be guided to realms of ecstasy with your words, it's an auditory thing... II don't mind if you're more experienced, I'm a quick and enthusiastic study ;) who opens my eyes to new experiences and opportunities,Ask and I'll tell you what I'm willing to do as I've run out of room here apparently .... ;/ Please reference the Interests section above... that should give some dynamite ideas...yes? So, help me out here... some count coffee "dates" as a date, some say it's just a screening ... lolEveryone has their preference. If we correspond online and then decide just casual meeting with quick escape route, then so be it. If we have off the charts chemistry just through our amazing writing and wit... then, I'm open to spending longer than 40 minutes with you ;)... to see if that white hot written wordsmith chemistry translates into person to person magnetism. :)Did I say I'm a romantic? I am. So don't be shy in that arena. Corny and sweet well responded to... that was supposed to be funny... :PNot a clubber. Not a barfly, but if it's an insanely cool place with character and good food, and they loooove you,okay maybe. Lol :)
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CarolOffline
Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-56
Hi! My name is Carol. I am divorced other hispanic woman with kids from Kissimmee, Florida, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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JoyceOnline
Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I am a mom of a beautiful 8 year old girl who keeps me very entertained. If you don't want kids than I am not the one for you. I want to meet someone who will want to get to know me as well as her. She plays soccer and would love to meet someone who would enjoy going to her games with me. She lives with me full time but is gone about every other weekend and I do enjoy my time out when she is gone. I am pretty laid back and more of a jeans and shorts type of person. I dress up and wear heels to work everyday and when I am not at work I like to be comfortable. I love being outside doing just about anything from yard work to fishing. Happy hour on a patio with a drink and great friends is more my speed. Not much into the late night bar scene anymore. I do love football and If there is a Cowboy or a 49er game on you can usually find me watching somewhere. Yes, you can be both a Cowboy and 49er fan. Makes for some interesting football parties. My friends would probably describe me as someone who has a big heart, caring, dedicated and tries to not take life too seriously all the time.I spend alot of time at the lake during the summer. I learned to wakeboard last summer. I will say it was not my most graceful moment, but it was a blast! Faith and family are very important to me and I am very lucky to have such an awesome family and great group of friends.I want to find someone that enjoys spending time together and likes to have good time. They want to have fun but knows when to be serious. Someone who likes to go out and enjoy time with friends but doesn't mind staying home, throwing something on the grill and catching a good movie. I am looking for someone within 5 or 6 years of my own age. Just a personal preferenceI have recently started trying to excercise and would love to find someone who can help me stay motivated and achieve my goals.Haven't had much of an opportunity to travel but would like to change that in the future. Went to the Bahamas a few years ago and wouldn't mind making that trip again.I work in the Accounting area of a restaurant company and have been there for 11 years now. If you you like Mexican food and a good margarita, I can surely recommend a place to you.I would prefer to meet someone that is within about a 30 minute drive from my area. If you have young kids at home you know how challenging it can be at times to just meet people. You throw in an hour long drive and it become very challenging.