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Bertha, 27

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About Me

I'm a just a woman looking for a connection, whatever that may be. Eventually I'd like to settle down but I'm in no hurry. Ive been through a lot over the last year and a half. I've made mistakes in my life but I won't be making them again. No regrets. Mistakes are a learning tool. I've endured. I'm stronger, more independent and capable than I ever thought. I'm a mother first and that will never change. Most of my strength, efforts and energy goes to my lil man. In return, he gives me everlasting love. Fair trade? I think so. Unfortunately people like me are often taken advantage of. I'm genuine, sensitive at times, and I have a passion to help people. I'm a lover in every sense of the word. I take care of my mans mind, body and soul. It's about give and take though. I'm tired of being the only one giving. So I keep my guard up. I'm too old for games. I'm tired of taking care of men. I'm tired of the lies. I'm tired of them not being ready. I'm ready to get serious. I'm ready to build a bigger family. So here it is. I'm laying it all out. If u think u can handle this than u know what to do. ONLY mature, respectful men need apply. One love.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Penelope

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Before you read too far, just wanted to note that I have sole custody of my son, and he is with me full time. If that doesn't faze you, read on, the next sentence might, haha! Here we go...Single mom to a 10-year-old son. He and I are quite the team and have tons of fun. That said, there are times when I need to escape, and think I am ready to step out on a date! Honestly, I'm a lil' scared at the prospect of trying again, so I prefer to treat this as simply meeting new friends. I work very hard, and my son, he comes first, so it leaves little time to relax and converse. But I'm willing to try if you're not certifiably crazy, still curious about life, and not always lazy. As for me, I am impatient, tenacious, and slightly neurotic at times. Like my incessant need to make all this crap rhyme! On the flip-side, however, I am loving and kind; and a horrible liar who loves to kick back and unwind.I want someone who is passionate in all his endeavors, who is always a gentleman, quick-witted, and clever. This is just a brief outline of what I seek in a mate, and if I find him through this venue, then it has to be fate!Single dad's are welcomed and encouraged to reply. That's it for now. Thanks for reading. Bye-Bye!Update: Just to add a little more information, I have been single a long time, by choice. I have used this time to focus on my son, to grow as a woman and a mother, and to just...be. Until recently, and even still at times, I have felt that being a single parent and dating were very difficult to co-mingle, so for the most part, I chose to focus on being a mother as it was what I felt was right, and quite honestly, it was easier. That being said, I feel that now that my son is getting older, it is a little easier for me to allow myself to date without guilt. I am not looking for anything casual. Dating with children is just not the same as dating pre-children (at least not for me). I am a 44-year-old woman and mom looking for a real connection with someone who gets that at this stage of life, with children, it really is a package deal. I hope to find someone who gets me, who gets single-parenthood, who gets that in order for there to be an us, there has to be a mutual respect for our children and our respective situations. I know we are all on here searching for someone, albeit maybe for different things based on where we are in our lives. So if I am not what you are seeking, I wish you all the best on your search. Something simple like a walk in the park

  • Ellen

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    My friends told me I should join so I figured I would give it a shot. I dont expect much from this site but I am optomistic. If you dont have any pics dont bother messaging me. I want to know who i am talking to...

  • Bobbi

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    Let's see according to this site there are certain things I should talk about "to be successfull and not waste your time"Hobbies - when I get the time and people to go with I like to go hiking and on road trips to places that i've never been to before or places I enjoy going to, I don't care if it's for a day or a few day's as long as you have good friends, laughs and a camera all is good. Traveling, when I have the money and time of course. I want to see the world and all the historical places in it, history is an amazing thing to see and whitness :)Goals & aspirations - I have no clue just yet, of course my goal is to live a long life and have love, family, friends and children in the future but i'd rather just see where life takes me than plan it all out step by step, where's the fun and surprises there.What makes me unique - first off everyone is unique, except for twins but even then there are some differences, what makes me unique however, well you tell me :)Music - I will listen to pretty much anything, I love music I don't know how to actually live without it because it's what's needed in life whether you're feeling sad, or happy, or **** Depends on the person and situation - you can't have a bad date, just bad a reaction to a situation. The one that puts most people at ease would be meeting at a coffee shop for some booze and conversation...wait that's not right, oh it's coffee you get at a coffee shop, my bad :)

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