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Amanda, 45

Offline, last seen Mon, 23 Feb 2026 08:31:55

About Me

Don't read any further if: UPDATED ***You just want to chat and text..Good Morning how are you? everyday for 2 weeks will wear you out. In addition if you are separated and still living in the same house with your spouse...YOU ARE NOT SEPARATED! Clean your house before you even attempt to move on.You have not dealt with the issues from your last relationship.If you are messaging so many women you can't keep your conversations straight.....So what am I looking for? Communication and honesty are critical. I do not have a type.....Jesus did that.I do not believe this happens at first sight. Actually I think it grows over time. It is worth the work and the risk.Now what I am like...Don't read any further if:You need a Savior --You have not dealt with the issues from your last relationship.If you are afraid of success, risk and the future – then it’s not going to work.So what am I looking for? That special someone who makes my world stop when he enters the room. That person who is on my mind and makes me smile every time I think of him. Someone I can talk with about all things deep and silly. And no, I don't think I'm asking too much. I have been deeply in love twice in my life. I'm not settling for less. I do not believe this happens at first sight. Actually I think it grows over time. It is worth the work and the risk.Now what I am like...I am a professional all the time however I do have to dress up Monday through Friday but in the evening I am just jeans and t-shirts. I really do prefer tail gate dates over restaurants and I do not like going to the mall or shopping...not kidding...not joking...not teasingI love my kids and they are my top priority. My son is leaving for college to play football AND complete his education. I do have one at home that is 99% independent. Yes I raised them that way. I love my job and yes it is demanding work. It is not my life. It is an important part. I get to travel a great deal, usually during the week .I love to laugh and my biggest strength is also my weakness which is I am very tender hearted and compassionate. I have more blessings than I deserve. I want to find the right man to share my life with -- I will camp, or attend a concert I want to see, or travel by myself -- if I have to. I am secure enough in my own skin to venture out. But with the right person I know it is so much better. . Really just like to keep it simple. We can discuss it! However if you can back my boat into the lake...still can't master that one...I can grill the best steaks and shrimp ever:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Roxanne

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I like wide open spaces, water, the sun, great friends..... honest conversation and lots of laughs. Absolutely, no drama...please stop already...lol. My question is " Do you like what you see when you look in the mirror?" and I am not talking about looks. That's all that matters, I know it is hard at times but I keep trying and hope everyone finds it.....Peace!!! lol A nice dinner on the grill and some good wine..........

  • Nettie

    Online

    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-34

    I work as a cardiac tech .... Have amazing friends a great family . Idk anything else you wanna know just ask !I'm sorry but this has to be added .... Please don't bother if :- you can't spell basic words .... - you have a photo that looks like u went to glamour shots ... It's not that deep - you have kids .... Sorry been there done that deal breaker - if you message more than 3 times before I respond ... You won't ever get a response bc I have already added u to the crazy pile - if you have a barbed wire arm band tattoo .... Your too much of a bad ass for me lol- if your hair is longer than mine- if your beard is longer that Jesus's - if you don't think girls should curse ... Wrong ****ing girl ... Sorry ! - if inappropriate comments make you uncomfortable .... You wouldn't last 10 mins in a room w me and my friends ... Sensitive men need not apply- if you are making duck face in any of ur pics .... Ur a dude ... Get a grip - if you don't speak English .... Do you honestly think I'm going to try to translate ?- if your profile says your 5'8" but your more like 5'5"- if you don't have a pic ... Saying "I want people to get to know me first" when all I hear is "I'm not good looking but I'm hoping that I can get u to like me before you realize that" .... Bottom line everyone on here is clicking on profiles based on pictures alone ... So you are just as shallow as the next person

  • Melanie

    Online

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Thanks for stopping by!I'm an outgoing, independant woman, who enjoys the outdoors (community/sporting events and camping), and loves to try new things (food, places, and crossing off items on my bucket list)!I have two daughters, 8 and 11, and I enjoy an amicable relationship with my ex husband. It was a marriage I left, over 4 years ago. As a former preschool teacher and child care director, I adore kids and do prefer to date men who have younger or older kids, as opposed to none.I like to cook basic meals a few times a week, and really enjoy grilling in my backyard. I've lived in my condo for almost a year now, and love this area, which is where I also grew up and attended school.I like to think I have a good sense of humor, am an active listener and amazing communicator, who prefers a gentlemen that is old-fashioned, romantic, and can share how he feels about me/us on a regular basis.We all have a certain type that we're initially attracted too and a chemistry we can sometimes determine by what is or isn't said in a profile. If I write you, and there isn't any desire, please don't feel like you have to respond. Furthermore, I have decided to just delete messages that I may not sense an immediate vibe with. It's not meant to be disrespectful, but it does take time to go back and forth and explain, with some becoming hurt in the process. I also have a soft spot for the Angels, Ducks, and Celtics. If you are a Dodger, King, and Laker fan, don't rule me out, bets can be fun!;. My apologies regarding that.Best of luck on this site!Sheila The first meet is more about a quick cup of coffee or alcoholic beverage to see that we look like our photos and there's enough chemistry to plan a date later. Surely we'll know if we wanna try for a date after 20 minutes!

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