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Judy, 44
United States, New York, Far Rockaway

Offline, last seen Sat, 16 May 2026 18:14:39

About Me

Ok so this is me: You get what you see. Authentic. Fun. Easy going. Independent, Confident and Free Spirited. I have great girlfriends that I spend a great deal of time with. They have gotten me through the worst and best times of my life and they will get a chance to give their opinions on you :) Don't be nervous! You will love them all. I have had my own business for twelve years as an interior designer. I love it. It is my passion and its where I spend A LOT of my energy...that is...AFTER I am the mom of two beautiful teenage daughters. They keep me on my toes and they are reason I get up every day. You must love girls if you will be part of this house :) We do have a boy... My little Shitzu. He is not always stranger friendly but a good judge of character! My friends would say that I am loyal, a confidant, strong and determined. I know how to have fun. I have been referred to as the energizer bunny because I am usually the last one standing. They also call me "DJ Ne" because I love all kinds of music and I am the girl with the ipod :) I love to dance!I LOVE to cook. I want a man that will cook with me. Not just eat! I love good wine. I love fine dining. I love entertaining. The parties, the barbeques, the get togethers...are almost always at my house. I need a guy that loves that too. I almost forgot! I LOVE COFFEE! It's a must in the morning! Grande Latte with 3 Splenda...or...at home it's the Keurig! If you are a coffe drinker...you know it!I love the sun, beach and water...laying out, boating, a picnic, jet skis. I am not very athletic (i was not blessed with that gene even though I try) but I love to watch and I will be right in the middle of it all. I just won't be the star and I am SO fine with that. I would really love to learn to golf and if you have the patience to teach me...well you just might be the one :) I love adventure. I love to travel. I LOVE rollercoasters even though I am scared to death! I won't be skiing in any type of environment (because I suck at it!As for you: well...I hope you are tall, smart and witty. If you can't make me laugh and if we can't laugh together...it's not gonna work. I hope you love to sit and have wine with me and have long conversations about anything and everything. I hope you have a great family and a set of friends that you can't wait to introduce me to. I hope you are passionate about your career but not overly obsessed. You know how to have fun on the weekend. I hope you are honest and kind and can be open with your feelings. I hope you bring something to the table that you can teach me. I want to learn more, experience things I've never experienced, and just grow mentally and spiritually with a man I respect. Is this all too deep and too much to ask and expect? I hope not. Cuz I am setting my stardards high and you should too... First dates...I prefer to leave it up to him however, to be honest..drinks or appetizers or something impromtu is best when meeting someone blindly. The initial meeting is just to be somewhere comfortable to be able to talk and get to know one another and see if there is a connection. Stress free. If that meeting goes well then lets start planning the fun stuff!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Spanish
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