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Mattie, 42

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About Me

Hi there! I'm a 42 year old single mom looking for Mr. Perfect for Me. I'm alot of fun, easy going and I don't "sweat the small stuff" . I truly believe in living and enjoying life because you never know what tomorrow will bring.Ideally you will have a child/children, love doing the family thing but also appreciate some grown up time and weekends away. I have a job that I absolutely love going to every day and am incredibly lucky to have an amazing family. I live a pretty drama free life, am on the Board of Directors for a great local charity and have pretty perfect life. The only thing missing is someone to share it with!I truly believe there is a soulmate for everyone somewhere in the world. Hopefully I will be lucky enough to find him! I'm open for just about anything !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lynette

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    Woman. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-31

    " And with the windows rolled down and her hair blowin all round' shes a hot southern mess. She'll take a beer, over white wine and campfire over candle light."" I love sleeping in on saturdays, and I love college football games and I love not actin my age and good barbeque." My downfalls, I like beer. Probably too much. I get emotionally invested with sports and have a hard time getting over a big loss (pathetic, I know), I feel most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt but like any girl, I like to get dressed up. I could probably beat you at beer pong. I'm always sarcastic, people need to laugh more. I tend to be a dork and am okay with the fact that I might make a fool of myself. That being said, I hate being the center of attention, weird right? Re-reading this makes me sound like a lesbian or dude. Fantastic. I can assure you however, that I am neither. KCCO.Quick side note. Guys, here are a few pointers. -Stop having your profile picture of you shirtless in the mirror. You have abs, we get it.-Stop throwing up a peace sign or any sign of that matter. Whats with that anyway?-Stop speaking like this: "Hyyy gurl. Ur hot." Thanks?-Stop rocking jeans or shirts with "diamonds."-Stop saying you love spending your whole life in the gym. You have abs right?

  • Rae

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am looking for a man that I can respect and admire. This time around, the man that will win my heart will be honest, intellegent, responsible, respectful, humorous, playful and maybe even a little adventurous! I have a very sarcastic wit so this man has to be able to handle that. I am looking for a partner.

  • Latisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have pretty much come to the conclusion that this thing they call "DATING" is for sans kids singles or non-custodial parents. Well, I guess it depends on your situation and whether or not you separate your adult life from your child's life. I am one of those mommies who is not wanting to be in that "This is your uncle this week!" category. If you happen to be a single dad who doesn't welcome your children into the revolving door of your love life then CONGRATULATIONS for putting your kids first and being the rare exception to the rule. Nothing wrong with introducing your kids to a significant other when the time is right or the situation is appropriate. But "Hey kids, this is Bambi and she is spending the weekend with us" just seems a bit tacky to me. But there are a few overnight visitations with either grandma or dad. And mommy does get a bit of me time now that she is in preschool for 4 afternoons a week. So I guess I could start scheduling lunch dates or mid-afternoon coffee house dates M-Th say sometime between 12:***pm. I am trying to get used to having this me time, but find that 3 hours goes by in a ***, that is my big disclaimer as it seems nearly impossible for me to be available to date at the drop of a hat. It takes some planning in advance to make sure it jibes with the visitation schedule or I can find a sitter. But for right now I think it is better to put myself in that boring, just looking for friends for now category. I am just being honest and not going to blow any smoke up anyone's butt. I am really pretty set in my ways and know what I like and don't like. I like going out to try new hobbies, experiencing new cuisine or checking out a band I've never heard before. I don't mind the bar scene now and again to do karaoke or listen to live music. I would even like to do one of those trivia nights. But I rarely drink these days due to finding I get a tad more tipsy than I would like. I like walks in the park, bowling, going to the movies, shooting pool and visiting art museums. Aside from playing in the park with my kid, dancing, the occasional aquacize class and tennis just for fun I rarely get my heart rate elevated for optimal fitness. Just not much of an exercise enthusiast, but know I should force myself to do more physical activity. I am a couch potato most evenings, and should just say In a Relationship with HBO as my *** Yes, I admit I am a bit of social media whore. But wean off what I call the facecrastination.So if all that brutal honesty hasn't bored the crap out of you, then please do hit me up for the initial e-mail conversation and "Let's Do Coffee" sorta deal. Late morning or early afternoon to meet up at a cafe or pub. Then we can do something fun and even active like a stroll thru a park or perhaps bowling. Tennis? I can't play very well, but like just the back and forth over the net. I love going to the movies, but that isn't the best for a first date as you can't really talk. Art museum would be a great first date as well.

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