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Ofelia, 29

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About Me

Hello! I am definitely looking for a relationship, but I'd also love to just make friends, too! I love to be near the ocean, whether that means on the beach collecting shells or seaglass, swimming/snorkeling, or boating (sailing or kayaking are my favorites). My job lets me be near the ocean quite frequently, so that's a good perk. I finished graduate school (biological oceanography) last January and now I'm a post doc. I like research, but I really hope to have a career that lets me teach, possibly at a liberal arts college. I love ocean science and I think the best part is watching students discover how cool marine organisms are! Yes, I am a nerd, but very proud of it! My preference for weekends would be to spend time with friends or family. Game nights are one of my favorite activities for staying in! My favorite game is Ticket to Ride, but I really enjoy many board games. If I'm going out, I like all kinds of live music performances, from classical to folk, contra dancing, theater, movies, bowling. I don't really like going to bars - I find them to be too loud to have a good conversation and I'd rather buy some wine or a 6 pack and hang out at a friend's house. I do enjoy going out to restaurants, but I also like cooking at home, especially when friends come over! I also like to go on hikes and walks.I am unique because I come with a large tool set. My dad raised me to be able to do maintainance around a home. I am very handy - I have built a bed, a bookshelf, and a very special planter for my mom, among others. I have refinished two tables and am currently working on a bookshelf. I was recently given an beautiful antique apothecary chest and I'm trying to figure out the best way to restore it. I also have a reasonable amount of experience with light electrical work and plumbing. I don't know a lot of current pop music because I tend to listen to NPR *** music stations on the radio. I have a very broad music collection, but I tend to get into moods where I listen to one group or genre a lot for a while and then switch to another group or genre for a while. I come off as being more reserved than I actually am. People are often surprised when they get to know me. It's probably because I am rather shy with new people.I love reading, but I find I don't have a lot of time to read. ***, I listen to audiobooks during my commute and while doing lab work. Yes, I know he is a bigot and has said really awful things. I completely disagree with those viewpoints, but I find his writing to be very sensitive and caring, not at all preachy or hateful. It's a little hard for me to reconcile those differences!I am very liberal, both politically and socially. I could probably be in a relationship with someone who is fiscally conservative, but I think I would find it hard to be with someone who is socially conservative.I have two lovely cats, but that is my limit! I think more than two leads down a slippery slope to cat lady. Two cats can keep each other company while I'm at work! I think a good first date would be going out for coffee or dinner and then bowling. I wouldn't necessarily want to go to a movie or concert of a first date because you don't get the opportunity to get to know each other.My ideal day-long date (but not for a first date) would be to start by kayaking to an island where we'd have a picnic lunch and walk around for a while and then paddle some more. Once back on land, we'd go out for dinner (I love Indian food!), followed by a local concert. Then we'd head home!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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