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Sonja, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I am the mother of 3 and have a son who lives at home still and is Autistic,nonverbal, and is 15 yrs old., I have 3 grandchildren so yes I am a grandma as well. I have been clean & sober for 6 yrs and 5 months. I am an extremely honest person and respect someone more for telling the truth *** being lied to. I have a good heart and a funny sense of humor. My family means the world to me and will sacrifice anything for them to have it better. I am somewhat of a tomboy in other words I am not afraid to work or get my hands dirty but can be a lady as well. Not really sure if I am looking for anything serious at this point I just got out of a relationship...but if the right one comes around it would be nice to get to know them and do things together and take it slowly to see where it goes. I am very understanding and openminded, and do not judge. We all have a past and I havent had the prettiest nor have I done things i am proud of. Yet Today I am doing the best I can and taking care of my family. I lose respect for ya when u cant keep ur word at least tell me geez! Its not like I am gonna freak out or be mad, Just dont like dissappointments.I mean why even say ur going to do something when u know damn well ur not? AGHHH! I do understand everybody has there own way of doing things, I try to do the next right thing and not hurt people today. Somewhere out in public or out to eat so we could talk and get to know each other. That way there is no pressure on either part and see where it goes, and if we dont click well we can go our separate ways. Or depending on the person and our interests ..as to what we decided to do.

  • Virgie

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Life is too short!!! It's time to do what you want now, not later. I'm looking for friends but if more were to happen, so be it. I enjoy the company of those who like to laugh and who know what is important and what what things can just slide. (or be laughed at) People who are full of themselves or are too serious need not IM or *** first date for me would be to go for a walk, or maybe meet up for a drink. Conversation and hopefully laughter will be involved....email me to find out more

  • Cassandra

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I love the water and walk along the bay a few times a week. I also go to the Caribbean at least once a year! So if you don't find me on the beach, playing tennis, trying new recipes then I may be curled up on the couch with my dog reading some sort of cookbook or playing on the computer. I am also just now (as of April ***trying to YOLO board! So far I have gone out a few times and loved it!Looking for a funny, honest male that also enjoys traveling and trying new things. In addition, it would be a bonus if he is very outgoing and confident without being****, and can appreciate my sarcastic sense of humor. I am looking to get off the couch and meet in person....not into talking on the phone or texting before meeting...This should be simple..Pick a time and place and lets meet up, if no sparks fly then we met a new friend:) Being new to the area I would love to meet friends as well as someone special to date!Anyway, there are alot of people on here and we are all in different phases in our lives..I am just hoping to meet someone that understands where I am and is possibly looking for the same in a partner. I think there is someone out there for all of us and I wish you all luck!PS..i work from home and can live anywhere....so location is not an issue for me. I do own a home in GA, but currently Im living here in FL on the water and enjoying every moment of it! depends on the weather..boating or meeting for a dinner of sashimi. Tennis can also be fun.... Meeting for coffee has been done to death, and quite frankly, is boring as hell(I actually just hate coffee!). I like meeting for a happy hour, which can lead right to a dinner if things are going well. If things are not as they seem, well atleast beer will help me tolerate what was not advertised correctly. (J/K..or am I..come on we have all been there!?)PS..if you have to smoke around me, we are not a good match....also believe it or not, even with the above listed here I still get asked out for coffee dates!...or if this is a looks only game? LOL

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