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Sonja, 42
United States, New York, Mount Vernon

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi! My name is Viola. I am divorced spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Mount Vernon, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Maryann from Mount Vernon | Woman | 41 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    luckily i'm in no rush :) cause clearly my knight hasn't found me yet, nor am i settling for anything less than what i deserve.someone who isn't caught up in superficial anything. i walk my own path and could care less what the "; are doing, nor do I care to compete.no expectations, no disappointments is my theory on dating.but if you don't have goals, than there won't be another date.just looking for down to earth, as normal as possible relationship that is balanced, with a man that can enjoy conversation, explore the world some, fish maybe, loves animals and loves to genuinely spend time with me. i am looking for something that can grow into something that makes us both happy. Am I dreaming again?!Do you believe you can compliment my life, with acceptance of who I am? If so drop me a line. I would go to a park and enjoy a walk and conversation. Grab a coffee or bite to eat for lunch or dinner. Someone take me fishing would be perfect for me. Concerts, shoot a game of pool, go to a festival or something. Sorry I do not golf.

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  • Nicole from Mount Vernon | Woman | 40 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Me:New to the area. I am a social outgoing person & find people and their stories interesting so I make friends almost everywhere I go. But now between kid, school, and work I don't have much time to get out and meet people. So here I am. :o)I love random spur of the moment day trips to anywhere and road trips in general. I have a sophisticated yet delightfully moronic sense of humor. Dry and witty yo' momma/family guy jokes (or worse).Im pretty independent, happy with my life. I was taught to be a lady with polite old fashioned manners. But I'm also very blunt & to the point, in a nice way. As well as a wee bit of a tattoed nerd. My goal is to finish school then in a few years work/volunteer my way around the world. You: Happy with life and where it's headed or working on getting there. Independent. Great twisted silly sense of humor. Laid back, non-judgemental of others (race, religion, etc. the usual culprits). Kind, enjoys helping others kind of person who can laugh at the worst of times knowing it'll pass. Has manners, is honest with yourself and others.Don't message me asking for bodily measurements, pics of my feet (ok so you like feet fine but is a foot obssesion really the 1st thing you want me to know about you?), or start a message calling me baby.

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