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Deena, 48
United States, Minnesota, Saint Cloud

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Just looking.....There has to be an attraction, that spark, that chemestry...... which I haven't found in a very long time. I divorced in 92 and have never remarried. Came close several yrs ago. I am content on my own and by no means desperate. I would rather be alone than in an unhappy relationship.I had a career ending injury a cpl yrs ago and am recovering from a recent shoulder surgery. I have a lot to consider career wise. And, may even move to the east coast where my brother lives. I own a home and have lived in OK most of my life. So, lots to figure out. I'm leaning toward staying in OK it's up in the air for now. Just working on making my arm better. :- Haven't done it in years. I love to dance, but don't do that very often either. I need a good dance partner :-) I am way past the bikini wearing days so if you are looking for a swim suit model those days are way behind me! I could stand to lose a few pounds but I am not obese and after my arm heals and I can feel more like myself I can work at dropping these extra pounds. I still won't wear a bikini tho! LolI can narrow my list a little ....things i do not care for.....pics of men with no shirts flexing your muscles, pics of your cars or motorcycles, pics far away or wearing sunglasses. Things i do like.......Smile and take off those shades! Show those pearly whites and your eyes. You can tell a lot about a person with the eyes and smile....Have a pic without a ratty ball cap. I don't dress up all the time but I don't dress like a bum all the time either. I take pride in my appearance and would like a man who takes pride in his appearance too. I am not perfect and I'm not looking for perfection. I'm just wanting a good, down to earth, moral, good-hearted, loyal companion. Someone who is not needy! and can be himself with me and my family. Also, if you have a history of crimes against others I can assure you we will not be a match. I do have standards and pride myself in being a law abiding citizen. Please accept my apologies.....I'm sure most of you are really nice guys and have good intentions. if I don't reply to your message please don't be offended. I have been on my own for such a long time and have become too self sufficient maybe. I am not lookin for a sugar daddy and I am by no means a sugar mamma! Lol. I hope one day to meet someone but I don't know that online is where I will meet that someone. I am extremely independent and kind of conservative.....definately not a thrill seeker. I had enough of that at work! If you are too needy we wont mesh! Anyway.......no pic definately no reply. And......I absolutely will NOT even consider meeting someone who is married! If you're that miserable in your relationship then get out of it. Geez! Sorry this turned out to be much longer than I intended. Happy fishing! Something simple like coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Dance Irish Mexican Spanish Baseball Motorcycle Racing
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