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BELOW IS WHAT MY PROFILE USED TO SAY... but in addition to below... i just wanted to say i could sit here and type about how incredible i am or something like that - truth is that if you take time to meet or talk to me and learn about one another that is the ONLY way anyone is going to know. so many judge on face, body and physical without learning who a person is inside. society has become VERY shallow and self centered. we all want the "eye candy" attraction.... but really would you rather be with someone that looks great but is really a horrible person or someone that's great inside that would give their all to keep you satisfied and average on the outside. i am told i'm attractive. i guess that's in the eye of the be holder. personally, what i look like on the outside pales compared to the inside. i will say i'm an incredible mother with a warm heart and a lot of love to give if i met someone. please, take the time to get to know someone... don't base your opinion on picture or words on a screen... learn with one step at a time - in the long run isn't that better? i was recently asked what type i'm attracted to - so here is my basic answer to that.... in a physical aspect i prefer guys that are taller and a bit strong...- just to say i like to wear heels and prefer not to look down on my date/partner. the strength is frankly due to like a man that can handle me without hurting me if you understand that. anything else you want to know - ask me..... i am easy going, laid back, honest and if in a relationship very faithful. my rules in life are simple... my son comes before everything.- i don't care if you leave the seat up- it's better then the alternative -LOL! i loose my cool about things that are just logical and not done. ex: if you stink take a shower. bad breath - brush! you'd think that would just be a given and simple. not always!! anyway, i am employed full time as a bartender and unlike most people i truly love my job. around work i like to spend time doing the normal things in life. i have my own home and am trying to get by. i have several dogs and truly i love my puppies. i'm straight forward and blunt (almost to a fault)! i wouldn't change my past for the world. i'm not perfect and if i had to say what my faults are the top one that comes to mind is: i let people that don't deserve it take advantage of my good heart. i truly believe there is good in mostly everyone. i like things done certain ways - i don't totally suffer from OCD but i do have it at times. my likes and dislikes... they are really simple... i like sports, action and adventure shows, drama shows (like law and order series - shows that make you think). i dislike fake people, dishonest people and especially liars, cheaters and thieves. i'm not sure what else to say... not looking to get a run around. i don't need games or anything! if you contact me understand i'm a single mother i don't have alot of free time to sit by the computer and do much...) that is about the computer usage i do outside of work. that's about it - if you want to know something else - ask - if you look you will find me - my life is an open book.


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