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Malinda, 41
United States, Rhode Island, Cranston

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About Me

I am a single mother of a 19 year old I am doing my best to have a life and be a good influence. She is no longer living at home on a full time due to school. I like to think that I will try almost anything (yes there are limits)once -- twice if it was fun. I feel that it helps keep life interesting and keeps you young. I enjoy being with my friends or relaxing at home with a good book. I also enjoy cuddling on the couch while watching a good movie. I try to keep a positive outlook and tend to smile a lot. Keeps me young at heart and has the added bonus of making others wonder what I am up to. Believe it or not I hate shopping and only go when I have no other choice. This drives my daughter nuts and makes my friends laugh when they know I have a full day of it. I don't regret anything that I have done in my past, I may look back on it and wonder what the heck was I thinking. (some of these fall under trying something once) I like to think of the bad choices as a life lesson and move on. I think this makes people stronger and helps you live your life to the best of your ability. I do have one tattoo on my shoulder, if you can't look past this then good luck to you. What I am looking for well.. I am looking for someone who does not intimidated by someone who is honest and can be just as honest in return. (This includes being upfront about being interested or not. I don't want to waste your time or have you waste mine.) I don't judge people by looks and money and I am old enough to realize that it is more important on how you act and treat others that makes you worth knowing. You do have to have a good smile and a sense of humor. As I have not yet perfected my mind reading abilities I would like to find someone that can actually hold a conversation as communication is required to build a good relationship. Other then that we will see... Note: I did put I am a smoker as I am in the process of kicking the habit but some days are better then others. It would have to be a place that we could hear each other otherwise what is the point.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Irish Portuguese South American Animation Fantasy Boxing
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  • Lucia from Cranston | Woman | 41 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    BELOW IS WHAT MY PROFILE USED TO SAY... but in addition to below... i just wanted to say i could sit here and type about how incredible i am or something like that - truth is that if you take time to meet or talk to me and learn about one another that is the ONLY way anyone is going to know. so many judge on face, body and physical without learning who a person is inside. society has become VERY shallow and self centered. we all want the "eye candy" attraction.... but really would you rather be with someone that looks great but is really a horrible person or someone that's great inside that would give their all to keep you satisfied and average on the outside. i am told i'm attractive. i guess that's in the eye of the be holder. personally, what i look like on the outside pales compared to the inside. i will say i'm an incredible mother with a warm heart and a lot of love to give if i met someone. please, take the time to get to know someone... don't base your opinion on picture or words on a screen... learn with one step at a time - in the long run isn't that better? i was recently asked what type i'm attracted to - so here is my basic answer to that.... in a physical aspect i prefer guys that are taller and a bit strong...- just to say i like to wear heels and prefer not to look down on my date/partner. the strength is frankly due to like a man that can handle me without hurting me if you understand that. anything else you want to know - ask me..... i am easy going, laid back, honest and if in a relationship very faithful. my rules in life are simple... my son comes before everything.- i don't care if you leave the seat up- it's better then the alternative -LOL! i loose my cool about things that are just logical and not done. ex: if you stink take a shower. bad breath - brush! you'd think that would just be a given and simple. not always!! anyway, i am employed full time as a bartender and unlike most people i truly love my job. around work i like to spend time doing the normal things in life. i have my own home and am trying to get by. i have several dogs and truly i love my puppies. i'm straight forward and blunt (almost to a fault)! i wouldn't change my past for the world. i'm not perfect and if i had to say what my faults are the top one that comes to mind is: i let people that don't deserve it take advantage of my good heart. i truly believe there is good in mostly everyone. i like things done certain ways - i don't totally suffer from OCD but i do have it at times. my likes and dislikes... they are really simple... i like sports, action and adventure shows, drama shows (like law and order series - shows that make you think). i dislike fake people, dishonest people and especially liars, cheaters and thieves. i'm not sure what else to say... not looking to get a run around. i don't need games or anything! if you contact me understand i'm a single mother i don't have alot of free time to sit by the computer and do much...) that is about the computer usage i do outside of work. that's about it - if you want to know something else - ask - if you look you will find me - my life is an open book.

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  • Marva from Cranston | Woman | 22 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 22 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 19-29

    Well as far as hobbies go I enjoy playing volleyball, going to the movies, hanging out with friends, dancing, working out, and just filling my time with random fun things. My goals in life are to one day be able to care for the elderly or become a supervisor of my housekeeping department. I am a very down to earth kind of person. I dont have to do the most expensive thing or always be going out. Im just as fine with a dinner and movie at home or going out. I want a guy that can make me laugh, be loyal, easy going, honest, loves to have fun, is ok with date nights. Some of the music I like is pretty much a mixture of rap, RnB, and some mild country. A good first date would be getting a coffee and then finding a nice place to sit and talk and get to know eachother. Or a walk on the beach. Basically somewhere where you can focuse on one another but yet sorrounded by people so its not too nerve wracking.

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  • Bette from Cranston | Woman | 23 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 23 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 20-30

    My life consists of a family I could not live without, and friends I sometimes think I don't deserve to have.I live to have a good time and make myself happy.I absolutely hate drama, liars, and broken promises."Thats what people do. They leap, and hope to God they can fly." ?

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