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Sonja, 48
United States, Colorado, Loveland

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I am blonde and a natural, intelligent woman, so I have been told:). I am in the education field. I love art, fashion and music. I am attracted to someone who knows how to communicate whether we are together or not and just has a great way of communicating and sometimes that can be with words, text etc but just good at expressing himself. I am not interested in someone who has lingering ex wives, girlfirends etc., etc. I am interested in us both starting with a clean slate. Confidence and being able to be happy alone is a very attractive trait in a man....for sure! I am slightly old fashioned on here, so if I looked at your profile, I may *** a later date or you can take the initiative and just *** like that. Being blunt...I like a guy who is a man and calls and is attentive. Of course I do reciprocate but believe a man should be confident enough to know if a woman likes him:). I am not attracted to men who are passive. I always try to see the positive in life. Finding the one man for the rest of my life, to be honest, is what I want. I feel that if you are serious about meeting someone and not being a mystery, then you will have at least 4 recent photos without sunglasses on, so please do respond if that fits you or *** let me know why you don't have them on this site:). If you need help in any level of MATH, you can always *** Although I have been a business owner and hired people and am the one that others come to for advice, I have to start taking my own advice in selecting the right partner for me. In the past, I had to be in control and make huge decisions with my life whether it be going on a car lot to purchase my car, take the car in to be serviced or working on my computer (I understand if computers aren't your thing) and I know that I would appreciate having advice and a man that knows how to help with things like that without being asked to do so...he just wants to be a man that way. I am not on here for just dating around. I would consider myself a laid back 'artsy' type person. I am a positive person. I love music, guitar and writing music for fun, but not professionally. I usually have music on. I want someone who is content and happy with himself, his career and financial status whether good or bad and content with where they are in life and wants to have a partner, to make his life even happier and more fulfilling. I have to admit that I am a hopeless romantic and even like flowers and being taken out to a nice restaurant now and then. If you are in between relationships, recovering from a breakup or living at home and not motivated to move ahead in life, then we are not going to be a match. If you have done a lot in your life and are just simplifying, I do understand but even so I am attracted to driven, self motivated people. I have had a long successful working career owning a business that involves education. I set that up online and dabble with that and do some of it here too. I have simplified my life and moved to this area to finally enjoy my life and perhaps find that special someone....I believe in putting my relationship first and I am interested in finding another who feels the same. I like a connected relationship where we have good communication and understand one another even if we are not talking all the time. In a relationship, I never go to bed angry or unsettled. I seek a relationship that continues to grow.I love and enjoy mostly all music and good food. I love to laugh and am attracted to a guy that is the same and has a great personality. A sense of humor is nice too. I like to go out to eat, cook at home with my partner, dance or just listen to music and enjoy the night.I like a guy who has been there done that and knows that he can attract women but wants to find one special woman to be with and is finally tired of the dating scene. Therefore, a confident guy....a plus for sure.I like a man who is intelligent and a good listener and who treats others the way he wants to be treated and definitely not overly preoccupied with things in his life, so not giving time for each other and our relationship. Communication is so important. I prefer face to face but if we are talking on the phone, I do need someone who is expressive and good at communcating on the phone too and even texting or *** we are not together..... What I’m doing with my life:I stay busy but am basically working on several things which involves my creative side of music and the arts. I have time now to put the priority on finding the right partner and enjoying life.I’m really good at:communicating, listening and caring about others. First we should talk on the phone and then if we decide to meet, we should both pick where to meet. A local place. If we have a second and third date, I like it if he makes the arrangements for the date out for dinner and make it a surprise.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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