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Lynette, 43

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About Me

I have been in upstate now for about 10 yrs... I was married 20 yrs...legally separated last 5 yrs and living in separate states.I am BBW ( hate that term ), but it is what it is. I am 5'8 and 250s. I am changing some old habits and working on becoming healthier..it is a work in progress. I am straight forward, no b.s., sometimes that works in my favor, sometimes it does not..lolI like to go out, when time permits (I do have my priorities)..but when I do go out..I love to have fun and cut loose.PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, be somewhat local :)If you like to know more then ask me.Thanks and happy fishing! to be determined upon chatting :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Irma

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm a mom first and foremost but I think balance is very important- I always carve out time for myself and my friends and family. And right off the bat I need to say I'm not looking for a father for my kids. They have a good dad. And to that end I keep my dating life entirely separate from my kid's lives, just FYI. ;-)When I'm with my boys I will likely be in flip flops and a tank top with my hair up in a pony tail. I'm usually at the beach searching for critters at the tide pool or out in the waves with my oldest who surfs. But then when I'm not with my kids, I let my hair down (literally and figuratively!) and will rock my 6 inch stilettos and little black dress for a night out. ;-) I work very hard so I like to set aside time to play hard occasionally. But then come Monday morning I'm focused and back to working my tail off!I'm very fit- I run, bike or and/or lift weights almost every day and am definitely looking for someone who shares the same active, healthy lifestyle. I recently have started taking cross fit classes- ouch but I love it! And yes I'm a very healthy eater. You will never find me at a McDonalds although you may run into me at Whole Foods or a local juice joint. When I have a free night I usually like to get together with friends. I love checking out the latest hot spot, but I also enjoy a cozy night staying in and cooking with a nice glass of wine in hand. I think my friends would describe me as smart, genuine, loyal, dependable, caring, supportive, optimistic and down-to-earth. I'm "a giver"- that friend who organizes your birthday party and brings you soup when you are sick.I'm 5 years post-divorce and looking for someone who has similarly "moved on" and is in a good place. We all have our baggage (hey I've got 3 adorable carry-ons! :***but most important is that you have taken the journey, lived and learned. To that end, I prefer to date divorced dads who "get" my journey and where I'm at.I'm most attracted to outgoing "type A" personalities. Intelligence, wit and self-confidence are huge turn-ons. If you are tall or don't mind me being a little taller than you when I wear those platform stilettos then bonus! ;-)Also, yes my pics are current (although I'm NOT photogenic) and my age accurate, although most people guess my age to be around 35. I also prefer to date men close to my chronological age rather than whatever age I may appear to be...... ;-) Let's just grab a cup of coffee and chat!

  • Felicia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    My personality is mature with great attitude even if I\'m having a bad day I try not show or be rude towards people around me. The person I look for is positive, not grumpy or annoying, can cope with problems like adult.

  • Cheryl

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Outgoing, sexy and smart woman looking for a partner in crime. I'm a busy body that likes to go out, workout, dance, hike, go to the beach, ski, travel, learn new stuff, live new experiences ...I'm somewhat of a DIY with home renovations. I've done tiling (stone), pavers, gypboard wall taping/finishing, repaired old plastered wall, painting, wood restauration. I like to learn how to do things and then admire my hard work. I love Music as it is always playing at my house... not so much with Country Music ...Looking to be myself, have fun and share experiences and just life.I live a healthy lifestyle. I love to cook and I'm pretty good at it. People think I'm funny and charming in general. I'm confident, witty, pretty, smart and active. Looking to meet someone that sees the glass half full, is funny, loyal, honest, has an easy laugh, is easy on the eyes, doesn't mind my mispronunciation but will correct me so I can improve my english, likes skiing / hiking on the weekends, likes to plan weekend getaways or a nice trip to Europe. Need a nice trip per year... it's good for the soul...If you are handy it's def a plus. Coffee of a drink in a quiet location so we can talk and see if there's a spark.

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