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Ivy, 31
United States, New York, Utica

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About Me

I grew up in a small northern MN town, spending much of my time outdoors and yes...shooting pop cans off the fence post. I graduated early from high school and enlisted in active duty Air Force by the time I was 18, in which I was stationed at several places (Cali, Korea, Germany) prior to returning stateside in ***in which I transferred to reserves and cross trained into medtech-EMT and began nursing school. I was officially separated from the military in ***. I work at HCMC ER Level I Trauma Center, a job that I have worked hard to get into with perseverance. I continue to remain active between work, gym and spending time with friends and family. I love to travel and have been several places throughout Europe in which I hope to someday return. I crossed skydiving off my bucket list and completed another jump this past summer! I am adventurous, energetic and extremely independent (not to be confused with stubborn). While much of my spare time has been dedicated to my career, my dating life has thus suffered. I work 12hr shifts (days/overnights) so this is something a significant other would have to be understanding of. It also means I have much more free time! I am new to online dating but am willing to give it a try if it means meeting my possible soul mate. Who I am looking for: someone who is ambitious, hard working and independent but also loves to spend time with me (of course!). You must have some type or drive or passion in your life. If you are lazy, do not work or looking for a "sugar momma", please do not respond. I will most likely dominate you, walk all over you, chew you up and spit you out (just being honest). I want someone who can keep me on my toes, make me laugh and enjoy simple things together...someone who will bring out my best and vice versa. I am one of the most down to earth people you will meet, a girl that is not afraid to get down and dirty, wear combat boots and heels in the same day. I don't mean to sound intimidating, but I am also not going to apologize for being independent and successful. I am really just looking for that well-rounded, fun loving guy! I think first dates should be simple such as lunch or coffee. If there is potential, then there should be a "spark" during the first brief encounter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Canadian Italian Japanese Mexican Crime Drama Family & Kids Sport Thriller Sailing Snowboarding
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  • Lynne from Utica | Woman | 31 years old | Pisces
    Lynne

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    So a little about me... Well, I enjoy being active and eating as healthy as possible. However, I certainly love to enjoy some pizza or a burger every once in a while. For me anything outdoors is usually fun, from canoeing to swimming to fishing or trying something new! I want a man who wants to be great friends first and foremost. I am also looking for someone who has time for me and who wants to do things and spend time together. I am NOT looking to inherit ANY baggage or drama from past relationships. So if you are still hung up on someone else and trying to date to get over them please move to the next profile. I am at a point in my life were I don't have time for BS or games and would really like to go on my last first date and finally meet someone I can build a life with. I want someone to come home to, someone I can grow with and someone that will be as good to me as I am them. I believe in treating others as you would like to be treated. I truly appreciate honesty, even if it's not what I want to hear, I really appreciate the truth. Why this is such a hard thing for people, I don't think I will ever understand, as I am a pretty straight forward person myself. If you want to learn more just message me! =) You're the guy. Don't ask me, lol.

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  • Alejandra from Utica | Woman | 31 years old | Libra
    Alejandra

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    im 31yrs old.i have two kids.both girls.I have alot of personality and i like to crack jokes.so if your lame im not the chick for you.:)..I have had my share of bs and drama so if thats your thing skip me i dont have time for it.i keep a very small circle to avoid drama,so the few friends i have mean the world to me..im more of a homebody but i do like to go out from time to time and have a goodtime.anything else just ask:) i guess it just depends on the chemistry of both people.

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  • Nita from Utica | Woman | 32 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I'm very outgoing and full of life. I cook all the time. In fact, I'd go as far to say that I am quite the domestic GODDESS! Yep, I said it. Ha! What else...I love to read. I want to have a library someday. Oh and I used to be an avid runner. I've completed 16 half-marathons and 3 fulls. Woop! Now I'm a slacker and out of shape. Ha. I love animals. If I could save every one of them, I would. I am also very ambitious. I finished my Masters degree last year and hope it will take me far in the near future. I am always setting goals and trying to better myself in different ways every day. I love to laugh and enjoy being around fun people.!!Concerning dating...I am going to be honest and say that I am shocked at how many profiles I've seen where men list out all their requirements and all the things they don't want. Wow!! Is romance really dead? I am going to be up front and say that I am very much into kindness. I would never be interested in someone that writes out a list of what not to be. I'm looking for a real man, with a genuine interest in getting to know a woman. A man that only sees me when he walks into a room. A man that is kind to his mother and is a gentleman. I am also attracted to outgoing personalities because it matches my own. But sexy and mysterious works, too. :p I'm a strong and confident woman and deserve respect, as I will ALWAYS give the same. I'm very old fashioned. I'm a simple girl who is waiting for the right person. I believe in love and marriage and have waited awhile to prove that it actually exists! My dreams consist of being a good wife, a good mother, and one day having a window over the kitchen sink. (It really is the little things).So you may be thinking, "Wow this girl's great!" But there's one more thing. WAIT FOR IT.....I'm trying to get pregnant. I have been dreaming of children my entire life and I feel that it is time. I am going through a doctor. Sure I could find a guy, but I don't want any baggage and I want the man I marry to be their father. I will be a single mom, until the right man comes along and I will be devoted to giving my child a beautiful life. I simply cannot wait! I am open to love but it will need to be with the right man, one that is open to accepting me and my child and who is non-judgmental and supportive. With that said, I look forward to be being a great wife and mother.So yeah, that's me in a nutshell! I am open to love and marriage, but would like to be friends first as I am adjusting to a new mommy focus. If you'd like to get to know me, send me a message and I'd be happy to talk. :0)Have a great day!

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